@brandi_beautifullybroken: It’s the double edge sword and the push/pull dynamic of a Fearful Avoidant #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #relationshipadvice

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justinphil5
Justin :
These videos are so educational but so confronting as an FA 🥺
2025-11-12 02:38:47
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bmzollinger
Bmzollinger :
I cant tell if I’m anxious or FA
2025-12-20 19:32:04
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angelaamr8
Angela Amorocho :
Someone i had a situationship with took so much distance, they left the company we both worked for. Rummor has it, they will come back to work at the company 🤷🏽‍♀️are all FAs so erratic?
2025-11-12 02:03:20
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francesca.evans112
Francesca Evans :
I've been trying to figure out how to be consistent without chasing?
2025-12-18 06:12:56
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lovefordinner2
Cathrine Emilie Agnes :
Yep .. if i don’t answer, in a short amount of time he says im ghosting him, and Then he use that as an Excuse to do things that sabotage our relation. Like seeking other girls. But when he dosent answer for days, he always has an excuse for why it is okay that he does it. So exshausting ♥️
2025-11-12 12:08:37
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coleone3841
Fabious-Cole1♈️🇺🇲🇷🇴🇨🇺 :
she only reached out or responded when it was beneficial for her or when she needed validation! had to cut contact completely
2025-11-12 16:52:05
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jenowithjam
♡ :
yep. he blocked me bcs he thought i blocked him while im on a flight so his msg didnt delivered
2025-11-12 14:50:06
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motherofcatss__
Whocares :
I broke up with my FA but I reached out after 2 days but he said for closure wait a while and for trying to get together, he thinks he’s not a good idea.. is there a chance of him coming back? Been in no contact for 2 months now
2025-11-12 02:53:46
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cynvil23
♡cyn♡|◇sahm◇ :
what if for 20 years I never was avoidant. I've always been the repair initiator. he's the one who has always pulled away and doesn't come back for days. and I got SICK of it. now I do the pulling away. the anxious in me would go after him to try to fix things before. but after sooo long I got tired of it. and now I'm in the middle of a separation because we were stuck in a vicious cycle. how do I know if I'm feeling a secure attachment in myself? I've done therapy over 9 years.
2025-11-12 01:14:22
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andi9x17
warrior100girl :
We are two FA in relationship 😭
2025-11-13 14:46:58
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elrawdon
Erica :
I feel seen
2025-11-12 06:14:59
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tinadoriana
tinadoriana :
so true. it‘s so annoying
2025-11-23 11:55:21
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mitchallig
Mitch :
this fa of mine build wall for 8mons goes silent act like I never exist,he just leave msg that I can't give u what u want.
2025-11-11 23:37:26
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pinkpurple215
pinky :
if someone don't like u they will seem avoidant
2025-12-11 17:45:15
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gabriele.naik
Gabriele :
I set a boundary with a FA and said I’m stepping back. My tone was cold after months of push pull. But his reply to me was laced with emojis and warmth, but he crossed a boundary and hopefully the discomfort sparks some growth in him. But bare minimum I get peace
2025-11-12 08:40:42
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jayyyteo
Jay | Quantitative Investing :
So basically their way or the highway and it’s all about them and their feelings and their priorities and their their their them them them
2025-12-31 15:29:34
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surajsd25
SURAJ :
yup been there..every 2 yrs break up..now I said it was enough and said stay away..
2025-11-11 23:46:43
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francesca.evans112
Francesca Evans :
how do I show consistency without chasing?
2025-12-18 06:13:41
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krisshurtleff
krisshurtleff :
Yes it's awful!
2025-11-12 15:57:33
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melik072
መልህቅ ⚓️ :
“The feel rejected and abandoned” - good!
2026-01-02 21:40:18
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bluebellta
bluebells :
what does consistency look like for an FA? I am finding it hard to love an FA (he doesn’t love me back but kinda still wants me arnd? He is also a narc), I just wanna know how I can make him feel safer
2025-11-12 12:51:41
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asabeanz79
Lisa Breuninger :
this could not be more true! was with mine for 4 exhausting years and it was exactly like this. We are now off again but im keeping it this way. I'm done with it. too toxic for me.
2025-12-07 18:42:04
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flowst888
Lee :
Sorry 😭 *from a healing FA*
2025-11-14 17:27:39
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cleopatrasdotter
selma🪷 :
ughhhhh
2025-11-12 17:14:50
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makingwavescounseling
tracy, [email protected] :
yes.
2025-11-12 04:23:12
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