@brandi_beautifullybroken: It’s the double edge sword and the push/pull dynamic of a Fearful Avoidant #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #relationshipadvice
These videos are so educational but so confronting as an FA 🥺
2025-11-12 02:38:47
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Bmzollinger :
I cant tell if I’m anxious or FA
2025-12-20 19:32:04
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Angela Amorocho :
Someone i had a situationship with took so much distance, they left the company we both worked for. Rummor has it, they will come back to work at the company 🤷🏽♀️are all FAs so erratic?
2025-11-12 02:03:20
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Francesca Evans :
I've been trying to figure out how to be consistent without chasing?
2025-12-18 06:12:56
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Cathrine Emilie Agnes :
Yep .. if i don’t answer, in a short amount of time he says im ghosting him, and Then he use that as an Excuse to do things that sabotage our relation. Like seeking other girls. But when he dosent answer for days, he always has an excuse for why it is okay that he does it. So exshausting ♥️
2025-11-12 12:08:37
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Fabious-Cole1♈️🇺🇲🇷🇴🇨🇺 :
she only reached out or responded when it was beneficial for her or when she needed validation! had to cut contact completely
2025-11-12 16:52:05
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♡ :
yep. he blocked me bcs he thought i blocked him while im on a flight so his msg didnt delivered
2025-11-12 14:50:06
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Whocares :
I broke up with my FA but I reached out after 2 days but he said for closure wait a while and for trying to get together, he thinks he’s not a good idea.. is there a chance of him coming back? Been in no contact for 2 months now
2025-11-12 02:53:46
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♡cyn♡|◇sahm◇ :
what if for 20 years I never was avoidant. I've always been the repair initiator. he's the one who has always pulled away and doesn't come back for days. and I got SICK of it. now I do the pulling away. the anxious in me would go after him to try to fix things before. but after sooo long I got tired of it. and now I'm in the middle of a separation because we were stuck in a vicious cycle. how do I know if I'm feeling a secure attachment in myself? I've done therapy over 9 years.
2025-11-12 01:14:22
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warrior100girl :
We are two FA in relationship 😭
2025-11-13 14:46:58
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Erica :
I feel seen
2025-11-12 06:14:59
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tinadoriana :
so true. it‘s so annoying
2025-11-23 11:55:21
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Mitch :
this fa of mine build wall for 8mons goes silent act like I never exist,he just leave msg that I can't give u what u want.
2025-11-11 23:37:26
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pinky :
if someone don't like u they will seem avoidant
2025-12-11 17:45:15
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Gabriele :
I set a boundary with a FA and said I’m stepping back. My tone was cold after months of push pull. But his reply to me was laced with emojis and warmth, but he crossed a boundary and hopefully the discomfort sparks some growth in him. But bare minimum I get peace
2025-11-12 08:40:42
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Jay | Quantitative Investing :
So basically their way or the highway and it’s all about them and their feelings and their priorities and their their their them them them
2025-12-31 15:29:34
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SURAJ :
yup been there..every 2 yrs break up..now I said it was enough and said stay away..
2025-11-11 23:46:43
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Francesca Evans :
how do I show consistency without chasing?
2025-12-18 06:13:41
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krisshurtleff :
Yes it's awful!
2025-11-12 15:57:33
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መልህቅ ⚓️ :
“The feel rejected and abandoned” - good!
2026-01-02 21:40:18
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bluebells :
what does consistency look like for an FA? I am finding it hard to love an FA (he doesn’t love me back but kinda still wants me arnd? He is also a narc), I just wanna know how I can make him feel safer
2025-11-12 12:51:41
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Lisa Breuninger :
this could not be more true! was with mine for 4 exhausting years and it was exactly like this. We are now off again but im keeping it this way. I'm done with it. too toxic for me.