@guyfieriwhore: the convo immediately goes back to them #foryou #fyp #xybca #college #friends

Candy Quinn 🍭 :

This is what I’m terrified I sound like when trying to relate to people

savanna 💋🍸💌 :

“but like for me it’s like-“

lacey :

this is me but it’s me trying to relate

ChicSensei :

I’m sorry I’m genuinely just trying to connect and be empathetic.

Freya Howlett :

I never did it maliciously, I just had a hard time being empathetic and tried to find a way to relate so they wouldn't feel so alone 😞 No one ever told me I was annoying, I realized myself lol Sorry, I improved, I swear 😭

🤍 :

like this is not a competition lol

SEA JELLY :

or when they completely ignore it and then start talking about their own thing

Arisha :

Stop relating and start listening. It isn't hard to offer comforting words and just acknowledge their suffering and then you can start talking about your own experience if you want to without comparing.♥️

SuziQ :

I have a friend who is like this. She doesn’t even catch on when I am absolutely quiet when she starts.

Evelyn Robinson 🇦🇺 :

Ditching the “one up” friends is worth it, it’s exhausting having them try to “compete” with whose life is better/worse than yours 🙄

luxmimuh :

POV you’re an only child

clos spam. :

Love your videos

henryfinnerty26 :

felicity 🇻🇦 :

watch a bunch of ppl in the comments try to justify themselves doing this 🫩

Robyn Marsh :

I suspect I’m autistic and the only way I know how to respond to peoples stories is to follow up with a similar event I went through and I’m so worried I sound insensitive and self-centred but really it’s either that or I go ‘oh that’s not good’ or ‘wow that’s amazing’. I have no other responses and I don’t know how people actually respond to stuff like this

ava ﾒ𝟶 :

I'm terrified this is me, I don't even try but I sometimes will relate to them to make them feel better

Tandem Snail :

what else am i supposed to say? i want to say that i relate or that theyre not alone in it but idk what yall want

🫍 :

Dude you look so much like Kennedy Walsh

Greetings I am Kailyn :

Relating with people is fine but always think “does this person want to be listened to or related to” most of the time they just want to be heard. This is not a “bonding moment” it’s moment for you to be their for you friend

origami princess 🌸 :

I don’t make friends with these ppl

Es🇦🇺 :

I feel bad I hope people don’t think I’m being mean or trying to make things abt myself bc I just try to connect with people and their situations but like in a nice way

˚₊·꒰ა 𝄞sla ໒꒱‧₊˚ :

@xxmol_0xx dont say the name but....

meow :

i unfortunately feel like i act like this, i try and make people feel better and relate to them but i probably end up sounding like this 💔