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Darby 🍒 :
As an autistic person that can verbalise my emotions and still struggles with meltdowns my heart goes out to you and Kegan Milly. It’s so hard to express what we feel over the smallest things. It’s like I want to crawl out of my skin, scream my head off and hit myself to stimulate some physical feeling that resembles what’s going on inside. That doesn’t even do it justice but is a small snippet of what kegan might be going through too. And it so so tough for everyone around us. It’s okay to struggle with the severity of the meltdowns. It’s a normal human response to anyone’s big feelings, let alone your own baby. Keegan is really lucky to have you. I’ve watched you for a few years and I’ve seen SO much progress in your lovely boy! You both got this! You’re the best mum he could ever wish for ❤️xxx
2025-11-12 01:55:55
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Charley🌞 :
I feel like it's them trying to escape from there own brain 🥹 it the inability to process "normal" feelings. in my opinion 🥰
2025-11-12 01:51:43
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hippysoul73 :
People don’t understand they can’t control themselves in meltdown there’s no reasoning / communication . With my son he really struggled with verbalising what was causing it ( he could speak but he didn’t understand his emotions if that makes sense ) as his got older it has got better and he can verbalise his emotions better . I have friends and family with non verbal children and they seem to have much bigger reactions sometimes reacting in violence . I’m wondering if it’s a link they can’t verbalise so it comes out physically . Like you say it isn’t right but it’s a form of communication and it’s not bad behaviour that people think it is . I’ve also noticed when my son and his friends who are autistic go thru growth spurts / hormone surges that can make it worse aswel . You have explained it so well no one unless they are living with this will understand 🥲. Sending the biggest hugs 🫂
2025-11-30 16:17:30
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Lisa :
I believe during an autistic meltdown, shouting at them or any discipline is the equivalent of a person drowning and your screaming at them to stop panicking and just swim already..... they are in fight or flight mode and freaking out with anxiety due to their nervous system being in overdrive. we wouldn't slap or scream at someone drowning we would try to rescue them in any way possible ❤️
2025-11-12 09:16:47
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Jessica :
Yep! I hear ya.
2025-11-12 18:13:13
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Char♡ :
you're doing an amazing job, just remember he loves you ❤️
2025-11-12 01:29:36
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Maggie Mason :
You’re an excellent mom. It’s so hard to see your kid suffering and to try to cope without help
2025-11-12 08:14:28
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J Guilfoyle :
People don't understand, it's like shaking a bottle of fizzy soda up and taking the lid off, that pressure has to go somewhere, the only thing you can do is make sure they're in a safe space until it's over, my son had no memory of his meltdowns, it would take a while for his brain to reset. ♥️♥️♥️
2025-11-12 08:17:11
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🇨🇦 The_beauty_in_unraveling :
Its so important to have this conversation, their is alot of grief parenting our kids and so often people are afraid to discuss it ♥
2025-11-12 01:07:27
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Wendy Malone Flynn :
Aww big hugs mill it sounds awful x
2025-11-12 09:05:03
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Kim. :
Big hugs Millie ❤
2025-11-12 08:00:16
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Bat10a 🫶🏼 :
Im so sorry friend 😔
2025-11-12 10:22:07
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dearie562 :
They have an unmatched strength, but nobody really talks about that side enough and people need to be more aware of it, Hope ur ok too x
2025-11-12 08:08:58
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flipflop sue :
my grandson gets like it to Hun it's so difficult for u and them
2025-11-12 08:29:29
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nicky5678 :
my son was the same and ur right u have to step back and let them come out of it themselves I used to try and distract my son with his fav treat or roy but nothing helps. its very very hard having a sen child. x
2025-11-12 01:34:01
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ladyT :
#FYP
2025-11-12 09:38:50
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Abbey Bollon :
I understand this so much as I have this with my daughter its so hard because we are there save space for them i have cryed to my self in my bed so many times I feel for you and keegan ❤❤
2025-11-12 04:03:48
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Sea mermaid 🧜♀️ vicky :
your always on a wave that's always changing x
2025-11-12 06:24:45
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donnamagill1 :
my son has cerebral palsy as hes got older (34 now) hes so sensory and has outbursts all the time so angry im convinced hes autistic but not one will listen x
2025-11-12 11:08:08
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Linzi ❤️ :
Have you tried nervous system calming techniques did these from early on as they are so very in tune with you as their mum so means we have to calm our nervous system also although easier said than done but is worthwhile
2025-11-12 09:43:18
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Becky Farlow :
I used to find every time my son met a milestone or was excelling in a different area, he'd go through a really bad meltdown stage it was almost like that was overwhelming for him so he had to have some sort of a release it's so hard xx
2025-11-12 07:58:46
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Paige :
my little boy has autism. he is 4 and fortunately he doesn't display any challenging behaviour at all. he's very calm and quiet, but i fear the day that this kind of behaviour may come. you're doing a fantastic job millie 🩷 hopefully a better day tomorrow for you both 🥰
2025-11-12 07:45:54
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TEENtheBEAN :
this is why people fear autism, it's so hard to understand an outburst, also it can't be dealt with using your instinctive reactions . it must be like living on tenterhooks. I admire parents that manage these situations every day. it must wear you; down mentally & out, physically. Especially when it happens when you are alone 🥺 You have to be a special parent to see beyond the autism to your suffering child within, to allow you to continually struggle & fight for your child. it must emotionally hurt, even tho you know there's no bad intention. it must affect your own mental health. I feel for you so much Millie 😭
2025-11-12 01:43:11
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