@chris_hatfield: POV: Your Ex Wants to Stay Friends #anxiousattachment #anxiousthoughts #friendship #ex #attachment

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napalmnik
Adam Napotnik :
If you can be friends with them after, you never loved them that way. I truly believe that.
2025-11-14 00:38:17
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laugelut
Lauge :
she asked me to still be friends and I told her I could in no way be friends with somebody that I love that much it would destroy me and at some point I would have to Watch her fall in love with someone else
2025-11-17 08:15:48
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story.shepherd
Shepherd :
No I dated them because I loved them and we got along and understood one another and just because we don’t work as a couple doesn’t mean I can’t still have a friend. It doesn’t work for everyone but I wish it was more normalized
2025-11-12 21:04:19
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the_lb_bfg
the_LB_Bfg :
I had a fling with someone at work and it ended after I left that job. She started to discarded so I made it official after a week of being ghosted and in limbo. She asked if we could still be friends but I told her it wasn’t fair for me to stick around after she downgraded me. I don’t want to see her move on quickly and give other people the love she once gave me. It was difficult to do but I told her this is a permanent separation and after this phone call we would no longer speak. It was very difficult to do but 3 weeks in I feel like I made the right decision. I still think about her a lot but I know I can’t go back there. It not just emotionally draining but I feel like I have lost my mojo without her. Bit things will get better every day. Stay strong people!
2025-11-12 22:30:54
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nicolacolemantayl
Nicola Coleman Taylor :
Absolutely- tried to be friends and it doesn’t work
2025-11-13 05:28:49
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polskipodolski
polskipodolski :
So, me and my ex broke up two weeks ago, I met her on monday to pick all my stuff up. She said it was fine being friends or fwb, just that she need space so we dont snap so often anymore even tho I see she is online and when we snap there is just normal face pic. But I asked her if its okay for her to call her and talk to her and asking how she is doing she said it was fine. Then I asked her if she would be ok if I could see her privatley to go on small dates to build up our relationship again very slowly cause she said she loves me but doesnt have feelings. So she it was fine to go on a few small dates to start over, just that right now I need to give her space
2025-11-12 22:18:00
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user1009789019
user1009789019 :
"If they don't want ALL of you = they dont deserve even a part of you"
2025-11-13 12:17:14
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s.alessandro__
sale :
@sale: i guess we’re in no contact for one month now, she keeps me in her closest friends, she posts things about missing me and nostalgic stuff, she likes my tiktok reposts. 10 days ago I texted her (whatsapp) if she wanted to try again, and she hasn’t answered yet, but still she didn’t block me. after my text she immediately posted random stuff on close friends (there’s about 8 people in her close including me) and liked some of my reposts. She still likes my reposts (they’re not about stuff together or nostalgic, many of them are about stuff that she is not interested of). Is this a sign? please help me
2025-11-14 18:59:17
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shenanigans245
Shen🩷💜💙🆘🇺🇸 :
Stayed friends and then all of the sudden we were back together
2025-11-16 22:42:41
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aneirsis
Cat :
I believe I disagree with this one
2025-11-13 11:46:44
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gabi_rose0
Gabi PharmD Candidate27 :
I will be playing this on repeat for the next 6 months
2025-11-14 23:06:01
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annie_nic4
annie_nic :
I needed this today.
2025-11-13 16:28:35
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hermes.trismesgit
Hermes Trismesgitus :
I hope this isnt universally true
2025-11-14 13:05:48
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pierwszedrugie722
pierwszedrugie722 :
Break up doesn’t have to mean cutting a person out of your life I will never accept or understand this I am friends with all my exes and even their girlfriends
2025-12-28 10:24:35
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doughesr7777777
ShawnD777 :
how can I not be friendly with her when we've got children together?
2025-11-12 23:22:45
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this.is.nugget32
Jazi.Nugget.Mojo :
“If someone doesn’t want all of you they don’t deserve part of you” I’m not crying. You’re crying.
2026-02-07 05:18:32
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clavigne232
Honey :
Thank you for this. ❤
2026-02-10 22:18:46
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huskydad001
HuskyDad001 :
Thank you. This came to me at the perfect time. 🙏💙🙏
2025-12-04 17:44:41
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joeyy077
Jomie :
Real friends can go without talking to each other for months and resume like it was nothing. My romance came to an end because of a move. Not really much blame to go around. So occasional contact doesn't really bug me. It would big me if one of us were wronged by the other. And we're just kinda far. It's at the point where I don't really need to talk. Every now and then is nice but it doesn't need to be a habit.
2025-11-13 05:18:04
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xxqueenofwandsxx
xx 🦋 queen of wands 🦋 xx :
💯% im in this situation with my ex we hang out alot but he says he dont love me anymore but his actions tell me otherwise
2025-11-13 01:53:41
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thebigolherb
Bongolo :
I actually might have to disagree with this one, I have anxious attachment issues and I managed to become good friends with my ex
2025-11-13 03:31:54
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svag._sak._
Levande :
I can't let them go.
2025-11-13 09:41:37
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x.deadly_devotion.x
˖ ⊹♡ 𝙴𝙽𝙰𝙼𝙾𝚁𝙰𝙳𝙾 ♡⊹ ˖ :
Thank you 🌸
2025-11-13 12:24:50
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jesiccamusselman
Jesicca :
Learned this in therapy this week.😁
2025-11-15 06:02:18
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senorputty
Nate P :
Literally did this early this year. Wish I saw this before!!!
2025-11-12 18:47:27
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