@healingwithemilyg: This is something I didn’t understand until I studied NPD bc it’s not how my own brain works. But once I knew this it all made sense. #narcissisticabuse #psychologicalabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticrelationship #abuserecovery
Also - if you show them that you know their game... you know too much... they need to find someone who is a clean slate so that they can keep the lies up.
2025-11-13 03:44:09
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ThatChickMik :
He was monitoring my eye movement at the end
2025-11-13 22:23:44
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1800dumbslutusa :
But they ALWAYS come back and when they do take them back so that YOU can discard them and never come back.
2025-11-15 19:35:46
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Brenda Angelica G :
It’s usually bc they found someone else too
2025-11-13 21:57:04
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Kaysass🐉 ♥️ 🦋 ✨ :
I can't keep up with how many narcissistic injuries I accidentally created by just asking to be treated right 😭
2025-11-14 15:45:59
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Bmzollinger :
The day of the breakup, she literally read a journal to me of everything that I “did wrong “. She never brought that stuff up during the relationship to be fixed. I sincerely apologized and was ashamed of my behavior, but I honestly did not know.
2025-12-21 22:52:23
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kacie magaña :
You explained this SO WELL
2025-11-13 15:11:16
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SS :
omg asking for reassurance is like water torture for them
2025-11-18 02:16:50
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Jason and the Argonaughties :
Literally texted me “you didn’t capitalize the first letter of my name, so you’re devaluing me”. Trying to clarify, defend, reassure spiraled hard. One of many instances I was put on trial.
2025-11-13 13:17:59
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Oli 🧿 :
That last sentence. damn. “You have to carry the shame that they can’t bear to face.” Described the entirety of my last relationship.
2025-11-13 18:09:13
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Andrew :
Yeah. The second you ask for any sort of boundary, they will blame you for it…
2025-11-13 14:11:42
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⭐️ :
literally all i did is ask who he was with and it was over 😭
2025-11-13 21:15:17
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infinity fox ❌️🙏♾️🖤 :
they also set it up so that anything you do is wrong - if I texted him he accused me of wanting an immediate response (which he required of me) but if I didn't text him then I was shutting him out and being silent. so either way I was wrong, which served his motives either way
2025-11-13 17:52:22
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athebs :
What is a RICO?
2025-11-13 05:36:05
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Blue :
All the fights are about silly things i was like why are we fighting about something that little ?
2025-11-13 18:20:25
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Tayla :
6 year marriage. 💔
2025-11-14 00:03:36
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Mildred1111 :
Yes that’s what he did to me and after 3 months he didn’t want to come back but keep me around as a friend well I bloked him I don’t play his game
2025-11-13 19:59:56
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I am e-mail 💌 :
Like 3 months after pre-proposing he broke up with me for being mad that he had liked a rape joke on FB lol
2025-11-13 13:48:58
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💖Leah💖 :
Just gone through this exact thing , something so small , out the blue gone blocked over something so small , mind blowing
2025-11-13 09:29:27
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user45789730 :
mine was the fact that i forgot to tell them i was going for a walk
2025-11-13 20:39:59
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Kaizi :
Holy shit I experienced this exact thing with my abuser I brought up they hurt my feelings and they blocked me and watched me and a week later utterly crucified me and discarded me like I was terrible all along
2025-11-19 21:30:08
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Raadiantaura__ :
So ladies, if you know that you’re going through all of this as she mentioned a bit remember you are not alone because it is 100% very true the mental physical emotional and even like sexual actions that they really do put in this to make you get hooked on them in all those type of ways and then we’ll mentally turn on you and all those type of ways just to prove to everyone else that you’re the issue and they’re not even though you are the least problematic person in that whole scenario of story that they try to create literally like a movie
2025-11-15 08:12:12
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Morgan :
Mine was “I don’t want to drive that far” it was after I was completely exhausted working for free for their business while being in Xray school full time, and having my own job
2025-11-13 12:28:24
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Automatic Kalashnikov 47 :
I got discarded because I asked him to visit me when I was hospitalized, he said he would but what if he dies on the way of visiting me then I must promise first to never marry anyone for the rest of my life lmao, just for a hospital visit? So crazy. Just say it bro if you don't want to come 😭 That sounds insane, to fcking "catastrophizing" himself when his partner was really sick in the ER, I refused to agreeing to such narrative I know not real but just to feed his ego. My mother eventually confronted how he had treated me and that caused him narcissistic injury, thus the discard 😌
2025-12-22 06:50:20
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