Just say no ! Real friends will understand and respect your boundaries 💖
2025-11-13 20:06:20
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Once a week is very normal when you’re older
2025-11-13 19:53:23
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Lily :
When you show up for the important things, its okay to put yourself first and not go to a dinner/ outing etc. I barely see my childhood friends but they show up for whats important and thats what matters. You know me, if im tired im
2025-11-13 21:46:36
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Glowithbee :
I usually break it down by importance lol, did you graduate? I’m there, did you get the job? I’m there, birthdays etc special events is when my friends will see me, occasionally I can come around randomly but for the most part it’s just easier when it’s a special event because although I don’t have time, I still want them to know they are important to me.
2025-11-13 20:35:43
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pilatesconcari :
Who is hanging out more than once a week?!? Or even every week?
2025-11-14 00:53:49
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itsindybindy :
use a google calendar and if it fits, put it on the calendar if it doesn’t say no 😭
2025-11-14 12:56:38
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valentina 🧚🏻♀️ :
felt to the core
2025-11-15 01:48:01
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Rena Ryze :
My and my girl only meet up once a month we’re both busy and adults and understand but when we meet we give ourselves the whole day and quality time
2025-11-13 21:17:30
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alisha ♡ :
I relate to this so much 🥲
2025-11-13 22:38:24
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Heidy 🏹🫧 :
Make time for people that you genuinely want to keep in your life. People you can see yourself being around when you’re older
2025-11-18 21:09:55
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thestylishlives :
I’ve always said you can’t have a million friends and give them all quality time. It’s like having children. You can only have so many before you start neglecting them or yourself. I think when it comes to friends, it’s ok to say “I can’t right now, I’d love to, I’m just really busy, I’m sorry!”
2025-11-13 19:46:12
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Brianna lee silverman :
I have not seen some of my best friends in person for months, but we still talk every single day and there is nothing wrong with that
2025-11-13 21:34:45
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Yuli | Orlando Pilates Teacher :
you don’t have to be a people pleaser, put yourself first, si prefieres descansar que salir eso esta bien, cada quien tiene prioridades distintas y si en realidad son tus amigas lo van a entender, si no lo entienden eso puede ser un red flag
2025-11-13 20:15:30
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Brianna lee silverman :
I went through the same thing too. I only make plans with my family or my boyfriend during the week and on the weekends I will make time for my girls. It is hard once you’re out of college and working full time to see your friends multiple times a week like you used to.
2025-11-13 21:33:26
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