𝘈𝘺𝘭𝘪𝘯 🦋 :
I have no idea what to do. I'm in contact with a guy who lives in the Netherlands and I live here in Germany. We've already met up once and had some intense days together. Even after we met, he kept in touch, etc. Now, all of a sudden, the girl who treated him badly is back with him because her ex broke up with her. He told me openly about it and what she did. He said I gave him a feeling she never could, that he felt comfortable with me. But the two of them are still texting each other, and it hurts me. I want to know what this means. He still texts me on his own, asking how I am, etc., because I think he notices I'm texting less and I'm not happy about it, but he's online on Snapchat much more. Why would anyone want to stay in contact with a girl who hurt them? I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or just let him be, but I'd really like to tell him because it's making me feel really bad and uncomfortable. But if I show too much emotion, that would probably be awful too. He also said he'd decided against getting involved in anything like that again, but why are they still writing to me? Do you have any advice for me?
2025-11-14 12:23:10