@chris_hatfield: Self Soothing: Being Left on Read #anxiousattachment #selfsoothing #texting #leftonread #attachmentstyle

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sweetndeadly17
SweetN’Deadly :
But how long are we suppose to wait till its just them ghosting and leaving? When do we give up hope?
2025-12-08 01:47:58
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heatheranne304
Heatherhavingfun28 :
I get left on delivered not even read and it bothers me ….for hours on end then no goodnight
2025-12-30 14:29:12
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lasoboss
Xander :
A saying I’ve came up with to help with secure self talk, “I’ve been hurt this way before, I remember where the stitches go”
2026-01-05 23:33:45
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andibcreates
andibcreates :
I’ve done this before and it helps a lot… Also, what helps a lot is just writing it down on paper realizing that it is my brain. Thank you for all these helpful videos. They’ve been a lifesaver.
2025-11-14 22:29:12
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steefan029
steefan029 :
Thanks man!
2025-11-14 22:13:59
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onusryan
onusryan :
Silence is a choice they make when they decide you don’t deserve a response. When they don’t have something nice to say they say nothing at all
2025-11-23 14:17:21
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handlerlux
Luca :
sorry but step 1 already doesn't work because if I say out loud "They're not replying because I'm not important to them" it's a truth in itself 😂 I'd rather focus on "if I'm not important enough to be more than an afterthought, they shouldn't be important enough for me to care about them or have them in my life"
2025-12-27 18:01:40
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cat_enthusiast
rivertheratman🇮🇪 :
Being left on read is different than being left on delivered tho. Being left on read means that they’ve seen and opened your text and chose not to respond.
2025-12-28 23:31:49
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michelle.chilton
Michelle Chilton :
Thank you. Finally put a name to it ❤️
2025-11-18 01:14:46
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mzzmystiq420
mzzmystiq420 :
Your TikTok’s are helping me so much! 💚 Thank you!
2025-12-31 01:55:08
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sarebair
Sarah!🇨🇦 :
thank you.. this is helping me so much. my bf and I are going long distance for about a year.. I need this 😊
2025-12-01 18:06:14
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fairly.autistic
Eli | 📚 :
How do I cope other that trying this though? We went from 100 text a day to 7 in general (13 tops) in one day...
2025-11-15 01:48:09
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silver_icy
Silver_Icy :
thank you
2025-11-22 20:52:04
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olgasomaraki
Olga Somaraki :
Exactly. I understand myself so much better because of your guidance. Thank you..
2025-11-15 22:15:19
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pat9222
Patricia M :
Being rejected - I love it says it all and teaches me to avoid people that are waste of time
2025-11-16 19:03:19
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jdfletch
jdfletch :
thwbk you for this one
2025-11-23 10:25:45
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home_stalone
HomeStalone :
being left on read is fine for majority of the day or for a day max... anything above it is just a clear sign 😉
2026-01-01 20:38:13
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she11y_1986
shelly :
what about if u text them in the morning but thay dont read ur message but yet thay have been on WhatsApp?
2025-11-18 09:38:00
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petpan37
petepiper🐈‍⬛🌞🌹🌹🎭🦁 :
wish I heard this before
2025-11-21 22:05:49
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holy_kurapika
Emma Kathryn :
What if I’m left on delivered for a day or two but when he messages back he has a story on why he disappeared and he’s still warm and affectionate?
2026-01-04 03:51:09
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pennyforthem3
❤️nanny mags ♥️ :
but are the telling me want i want to hear thats what i think anout
2025-12-06 10:28:13
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_the_otaku_dragon_
The Otaku Dragon :
But what if they are active everywhere else when you’ve been left on read?
2025-12-31 09:31:56
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ongezwa.mimi
Ongezwa Mimi :
secure❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-03-19 14:29:41
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lisa_beauty990
lisa_beauty990 :
Really all depends on the man your dealing with.. from experience
2025-11-15 15:03:09
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