People think we’re evil or something. Our attachment styles comes from the same thing. An anxious person will make a secure person avoidant, and an avoidant will make one anxious
2025-12-01 14:03:27
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Bam_25 :
Trust me, you can say all that, but they can still walk away without warning.
2025-11-15 07:05:54
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heavyheavybrobro :
best thing to do with avoidants is to avoid them
2025-11-15 21:17:45
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˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ :
As an avoidant, I’m hurt by some of these comments. Some people don’t understand
2025-11-17 04:37:11
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Lima___ :
To the avoidants : please go get help and not a relationship.
2025-11-18 10:27:40
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4EverDandelion :
an avoident needs professional help and to stay out of relationships of any kind until they have healed their trauma. no accuse to treat people with silence and abuse.
2025-11-16 23:38:31
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sana :
Being “avoidant” is just an excuse to not put in effort into a relationship bc they would never do that in a professional, school, or work setting ,,,,
2025-12-21 05:39:46
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neyneyloff :
Personally I don’t think avoidants deserve to be understood or reassured. They are fully aware of the pain they cause
2025-12-01 12:25:57
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Emily :
Guys, there ARE avoiders who are actually pretty self aware and not toxic at all. Love feels risky for them because of their past, and diving into all that emotional stuff can be really scary. Stuff like this can actually be really healing.
2025-12-11 15:18:43
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Nikki :
What about what we need?
2025-11-16 00:16:28
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Lettyedwards :
Na did this for 11 yrs. Nothing will make them happy unless they wake up & heal their trauma. They will just repeat the same cycle over and over throughout their life unless they heal.
2025-11-15 08:45:18
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user9543183964411 :
why they have to be so cruel
2025-11-15 09:13:40
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astronomy fan⚛️ :
As an avoidant, these comments here hurt more than we sometimes hurt others
2026-01-01 22:44:22
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serah :
The lack of empathy for avoidants shows how much people don’t really believe in “mental health matters”
2025-12-17 13:55:02
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balderoine :
Thank you for having some compassion. As someone trying to heal avoidant attachment, this means a lot
2025-11-16 18:25:08
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Ella :
they will always put their own needs above anyone elses, they will always walk away from a conversation no matter how important it is to you
2025-12-18 20:38:01
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Xendo_1 :
avoidants = not ready to be in a rs
2026-01-26 06:20:34
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Stewart :
What avoidants need to hear: stay away from me and go seek therapy immediately.
2025-12-18 15:27:38
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lilly 🎱🍒 :
It just doesn’t matter what you do. It will never be good enough for them. They will always leave and come back the second you’ve moved on. It’s the most toxic, draining cycle. Block them and move on
2026-01-18 01:18:47
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اقصى :
it wouldn’t matter, they just pick another naive girl and repeat the same cycle
2025-11-15 22:30:12
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kat :
Can’t change them, saying this to them won’t even do anything. Can’t have an actually conversation with them
2025-11-16 00:30:57
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Leila🐉 :
I think some of y'all are forgetting people do change, not every person is the same, and if it's not your vibe then fine, but there are people out there who change, and not every avoidant is abusive either.
2025-11-16 04:33:36
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Sinz :
Ya, you can say that and then they will just go quiet and not speak to you for weeks.
2025-11-16 02:07:15
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