Not As We Planned
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Saturday 15 November 2025 20:36:37 GMT
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Corinniebabe :
It damaged my nervous system in a way I’ve never been broken
2025-11-16 19:05:25
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MrsDivan :
I’m nearly 4months in from being discarded after a 30yr marriage…. It does get easier .
2025-11-16 20:42:11
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Juliannethomsonpt :
It when you express your doubts to your partner about your future plans and he doesn’t fight for you 😭
2026-02-12 18:11:42
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user7294210136233 :
Same here 2 weeks in and just getting to terms with it.
2025-11-26 22:03:16
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Jodie Hadaway :
I don't want it to be the beginning of something much better.
2026-01-13 00:04:47
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TravElz ✨ :
The healing process is not for the faint hearted, but doing the work is so so worth it
2026-01-11 21:16:49
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✨️Josie✨️ :
so true girl ❤
2025-11-18 02:41:04
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Tat 🇨🇦 :
9 month after 10 years. I am just getting through it one day at a time
2025-11-22 18:19:02
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Chloe ♥️ :
I enjoy being alone now…. He completely broke me after knowing my trauma. X
2025-11-16 07:06:25
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Bogus_87 :
literally feel so numb! hate that hes made me feel like this
2025-11-16 03:06:50
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deangarnham :
Going through this now and I know it’ll be okay, just hurts so much right now 💔
2025-11-16 09:50:39
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Sianx :
You can only sit in this validation when you’re coming through the other side. When you’re in the pain and have been dropped is probably the lowest you’ve ever been. It gets easier xx
2025-11-15 23:08:36
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P :
Very very painful
2025-11-16 14:20:34
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Kimberley :
Night 1 alone after me telling my sons Dad to leave. Never wanted this! But tried everything. I need to sit in this now ❤️
2025-11-15 23:28:42
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Rah :
💔💔🥺🥺 never felt pain like it
2025-11-16 06:45:48
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Bella :
I never thought I’d feel better but I genuinely really do feel better I’m a different person but the pain does go away
2025-11-15 23:50:06
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690257Kelly :
💯 its a learning curve it. It makes you become such a stronger person 💪
2025-11-16 08:38:36
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Charley :
Month 4 and still feel sad… slowly getting me back but it’s taking time 😞
2025-11-17 13:42:39
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Babybyekel80 :
13 months for me and i still feel the exact same! Im so damaged. Im gave all i had but im never enough! 💔
2025-12-21 05:36:42
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Liz :
7.5 years of living together - dumps me over text after I was away for three months dealing with my dad dying and trying to help my mom
2025-11-19 17:30:09
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Wendy :
Needed this today 🙏❤💯
2025-11-16 10:10:14
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xkatemx :
8 weeks in after 10 years together and this happened. We have a daughter. It is much damaging not expecting it and being left. A lot happened. It's awful.
2026-01-12 07:03:45
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xmari.wgrx :
He broke up this evening
2025-11-16 02:45:18
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Hannah Louise H 🦋 :
I was seeing someone and I let my guard down 💔 it’s taken me a long time now I’ve just been treated like something on their shoe. I stayed single for so long but now that guard is going straight back up.
2025-12-08 16:17:09
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Pastel Creations by Katrina :
Gods strength is the only reason I’m getting through!
2025-12-06 14:51:14
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J ✨ :
Trust me the dark place it sent me too, I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. But I had learnt and I am growing into a better version of myself ❤️
2025-12-06 08:54:52
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clareprincess :
This is exactly what has jusy happened to me 😩
2025-12-05 01:23:51
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user2883928106398 :
I can’t get past it. I try but it knocks me for six all the time….all I ever feel is numb! I out on a front to work and to function at home but inside I feel broken forever..worthless!
2025-11-21 13:20:07
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romi :
how long is it okay to feel that pain? it's been more than 2 months and i am in the trenches
2025-11-16 17:35:37
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Lisa :
Needed that today thank you ladies x
2025-11-19 10:00:27
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Emer :
its a shock to the whole body when its something you never expected/thought would happen to you, your grieving basically. But yes people need to believe it not something that will last, you need to be strong and know your worth x ( do not believe what they say to you/call you, you are not the crazy one, it is not your fault!!)
2025-11-18 17:51:01
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Court Jade :
I needed this more than you’ll ever know
2025-11-18 17:16:41
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Liveinthemoment :
This is so true! 🔥
2025-11-18 13:48:58
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natasha_anne :
I needed to hear this 🥺🥺 I just went through the most painful breakup
2025-11-17 21:56:26
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Zoe Edwards :
This is me!! 18 months on separated and that feeling still crops up 😌 only now I allow myself to sit with the pain rather than mask it ❤️the kids are my strength 💪 thanks girls, powerful words as always 🥰
2025-11-15 21:32:50
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Amy Burke :
When does it get better 💔
2025-11-17 11:00:27
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ᴀʟᴇxɪs ʀᴜɢɢɪᴇʀᴏ :
My god it’s feeling permanent 😔
2025-11-17 08:22:12
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Claire Louise :
6 weeks in and not getting any easier, in fact it’s probably worse
2025-11-17 01:03:14
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Jane :
I have never felt anything like it. To be a person everything the day before and the next day your nothing to them. They just don’t love you anymore. Then to find out was always another woman on the side. Heartbreaking 💔
2025-11-16 10:35:26
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MEO_xxx :
I’m a year after the discard now. And I soon realised the abusive relationship I was in. Time does heal although I still have a lot to work on from the pain of how he manipulated and abused me. But I will get there. 💜💜💜
2025-11-16 14:10:54
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