@bthediva: Why are fathers so afraid of their daughters becoming women? Do fathers seggxualize their daughters? Inspired by Neyo’s recent Instagram post. Let me know your thoughts! #discourse #daughters #firstborn #debate
They make girls feel shame for going through puberty
2025-11-17 13:02:43
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Ma-less :
My Dad used to say I was born as his punishment for being a womanizer 😞
2025-11-16 20:22:28
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👁️🗨️xander👁️🗨️ :
My father started to hate me when I started to MATURE😳
2025-11-17 00:29:41
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🎀 𝓥𝓮𝓮 🎀 :
At a family event recently, my aunt pointed out my 5yr olds “buds” infront of everyone… I brushed it off but it triggered me so bad! Like WTH!
2025-11-16 19:04:11
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MidnightSnack1990 :
The BM that want mixed daughters do. Girls are sexualized before we are even conceived.
2025-11-16 19:56:35
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Mikee :
When i was a kid i had a pj set that was a tank top and shorts. My dad told me to change because his friend was coming over....
2025-11-17 00:30:16
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sky.avior :
ive been a nurse for 17 yrs. i handled SO MANY pts with CSA cases. its been so hard to keep these sensitive infos to myself.. it affected me deeply. made me fear having my own kids & see husband/fathers/uncles as potential abusers always
2025-11-16 12:51:13
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jocy :
So so so glad my dad is NORMAL
2025-11-16 15:03:06
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Mieikacats2 :
Yes. That’s why men change with their daughters when puberty hits.
2025-11-17 01:32:24
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Dr.StoneCole🚦Price’s Right :
I’m old and my dad and grandpa would literally say stuff like “oh you’re gonna make a great wife one day” or “you’ll make some man very happy” 😣 They let their friends say it too. That shit weirded me out so bad I started dressing like a boy. Messed with my whole self image.
2025-11-16 05:21:01
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s ✌🏽 :
“I hate that clothes fit you different now” WHAT
2025-11-17 20:55:53
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_emeraldx :
I remember when I was in 3rd-4th grade I wasn’t allowed to wear my favorite space jam pajama set because it was “too tight” and I “wasn’t a lil girl anymore” 😶 obviously I’m NC with the men in my family now but WTF
2025-11-16 22:13:31
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PIX!E MAG :
As soon as I turned a certain age my male family members decided we weren’t family anymore.
2025-11-16 19:37:28
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discoduckss :
So many ppl want to have a baby when they should want to be parents.
2025-11-17 15:02:06
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Thee Creatrix :
And don’t let you look like yo mama cuz all they see is that woman they wanted
2025-11-16 22:21:56
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jskylerinc :
It’s also extremely dehumanizing for a parent to demonize the fact their child is physically maturing into an adult. I just posted about this today. If you’re uncomfortable acknowledging your child’s sexuality and development in a healthy way, they’re going to seek affirmation from someone they shouldn’t be.
2025-11-17 01:31:24
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ROC or Yoshi :
I was staying with my dad during the Covid lockdown. I had on spandex workout shorts and he told me to change my clothes. Mind you, I was fully covered but because it was spandex which fits in a way that shows your silhouette he felt uncomfortable. I never looked at him the same way. It was so weird and all it told me is he felt under because he liked what he saw and knew it was wrong.😒
2025-11-16 18:13:37
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saturnianfae :
And this is why I had to cut my own so called father off not too long ago. The last straw was me catching him looking at me in a s*xual way. It was disgusting and still to this day angers me.
2025-11-17 21:36:24
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Elizabeth Styx :
Mom uncles and mom sexualized me if I had a dad probably would have too
2025-11-16 15:43:32
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Glib :
Both my mom and dad did
2025-11-16 09:04:01
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Just Mike605 :
I think it's more of a parent thing not a father thing. I have seen and heard many many moms sexualizing their daughters and policing their clothing just as much as dads
2025-11-18 01:15:20
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Alexandra :
I feel like it kinda shows how a lot of men think maliciously and know they do, because they get so scared of other men viewing their daughter the way they likely viewed other women, which does make me question: How malicious is the way that men view us that makes it so that they are this scared of thier daughters being viewed the same way? 🤔
2025-11-17 13:35:56
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Megera_7 :
Yes a lot of these do. Same for step parents
2025-11-16 05:07:06
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