@chl0meister:

kloélia :

you’re right but they’re not ready for this conversation 😭😭

meg✨💙 :

hmm, i think i see what you’re saying but i don’t think (for myself atleast) that i equate hypersexuality with being gay; ofc that is no indicator. its more so the idea that being insatiable /continuously unfulfilled with heterosexual relationships, in my eyes, may indicate a longing for a different type of relationship. it’s obviously not always the case but yeah again for me it isn’t the idea that if you have a lot of seggs u are gay, but more so the continuous dissatisfaction with heterosexual relationships that may indicate a root cause of not being entirely heterosexual - and the inability to acknowledge that or atleast entertain that thought is rooted in internalized homophobia of said person. again, not always the case and honestly i do acknowledge that might be a cop out but i can’t help but feel that way a lot of the time

shidforbrains :

Ok but what if I found Grindr on his phone babe?

unnecessary :

I think (and I’m not saying this is my personal opinion, it’s my interpretation of what they mean) that someone who cannot respect their partner and serial cheats is not genuinely interested in that gender. While it’s a leap, I understand why the get there. If a man repeatedly cheats on every girlfriend they have, it comes across as though they do not respect women. And if you don’t respect women, are you even attracted to them? I’m assuming this is the thought process don’t hurt me please

No :

Your comment sections remind me why I hate trying to talk to people

heihei :

well some of us can actually say that bc our bfs cheated on us with men but bean soup yk 😔

confettati :

Theyre not getting it unfortunately

Chammie :

THEY KNOW DADA …

Ellie ; :

everyones disagreeing but i hear u

SAN FRANCISCO CITY STREETS :

Hello what

mariah ꩜ :

Omg I replied to someone and then decided to block them - and it left my comment looking like a random hate comment towards you. Don’t mind it lol

oopsiedaisies001 :

ugh this landed on the wrong side of tt girl but ur absolutely right

Tommy :

it feels like them trying to… justify it? or like ignore it?

carmina🪷 :

This was so well said

emma kozina :

no bc i know exactly what you are saying. and in movies whenever there’s queer men they will portray them as more promiscuous like even jeremiah from summer i turn pretty LOL😭 it really is that deep

Jay🍒🪽🍸🎱 :

i completely agree with this take

William :

Well articulated.

Jay :

what is bro talking about yo....

axel :

sanjiswanson :

M :

sometimes people just don’t have impulse control

EmbersforTomorrow :

Well my man did cheat and leave me for another man… so…

Nix :

HELLO

Matty Marz (madison) :

Yup