Mary Witmer
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Monday 17 November 2025 18:17:48 GMT
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glamdunk :
When my mom had cancer, we had some very kind people bring us food, but one lady brought pizza and like 5 boxes of cereal. It was amazing because we had tons of leftovers, but no breakfasts.
2025-11-17 20:45:03
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Happybrenna :
disagree with choices- best part of meal train imo is that is just magically shows up - pick something yourself, it will be appreciated regardless of what they ate last night imo
2025-11-18 05:05:36
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Kelsey :
also - consider any other kids in the house. bring a couple grilled cheeses or something if you’re bringing something they haven’t had before
2025-11-17 20:19:26
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Hannah Bord. :
My best friends prepped a veggie tray and it was probably my favorite thing that came through the house
2025-11-18 14:58:35
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juliamynhier :
All of this! I also add a disposable tray full of fresh fruit, which is a breath of fresh air when you’re back to back in casseroles. So many moms text me after with happy tears over some berries and oranges!
2025-11-18 17:24:30
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KKG :
Add some prepped fruit, grab and go snacks, and breakfast tacos wrapped in foil!
2025-11-17 21:41:42
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Reese :
And #4 you drop it on the front porch, leave, then text “just dropped it off! Enjoy!”
2025-12-06 20:52:23
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MidGirlWalk :
Also, if you’re like me and don’t cook for other people- Olive Garden (or other chains) family meal is a GREAT option. It was a ton of food, reheated so easily, and came with utensils down to disposable salad tongs.
2025-11-17 21:30:15
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fridge565 :
And don’t forget the dessert!!!👏👏👏
2025-11-17 19:28:36
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mother cait ☺︎ :
One of my friends gave me 3 options to pick from after I had my third baby and I thought that was the best idea ever 🤍🤍
2025-11-17 20:06:25
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Jordan :
The best thing someone dropped off after my son died was disposable everything. Plates, cups, napkins, utensils, tissue. It was one less thing to deal with.
2025-12-26 00:36:40
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Alison :
We always include dessert and snacks.
2025-11-18 02:47:48
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Casey Morse :
I will never forget the time I broke someone’s custom blue anchor 9x13 glass pan…. Whoops
2025-11-17 22:16:39
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Autumn Lee Wallace :
Yall got meal trains 😭
2025-11-17 20:13:35
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Erin Burson🖤 :
A dessert and a pack of muffins or donuts for breakfast the next day too!🥰
2025-11-17 20:18:00
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Allie Leigh 🤗 :
VEGETABLES. I got so many carbs and pastas (which are nice!) when postpartum and when a friend texted and asked if I’d be interested in a “power chicken salad, packed with veggies, easy to eat with one hand.” I jumped at it and make something similar for everyone now. I do ask, but most people have agreed a veg would be nice!
2025-11-18 02:41:15
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user4567689829121 :
Whenever she says “oh whatever is fine, you choose!” I stalk her Pinterest page and find a recently pinned recipe!
2025-11-19 03:27:09
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Amanda :
"she's sustaining life" 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
2025-11-18 01:13:16
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user8383902273829202 :
I like to ask what she doesn’t want to eat or what she’s tired of. Much easier than asking what she wants
2025-11-18 00:21:43
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Nicole :
And also we are absolutely NOT going to ghost her bc that happened to me after my first child was born - the girl who signed up for that day literally vanished into thin air. We never heard from her again. It was CRAZY 😭
2025-11-18 02:10:28
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Wendy :
The choice ideas is a good one. My husband and I still occasionally talk about the time someone brought us a tuna casserole and we pitched the entire thing in the trash (this was 20 years ago). Horrible waste, I know. We just couldn't eat that thing.
2025-11-18 03:58:00
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McKenzie G :
I always bring a breakfast casserole and an extra meal that can go in the freezer on top of the meal
2025-11-18 16:56:39
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Haley ❣️ :
My mother in law with my first pregnancy dropped off a box of all of my personal favorites (which is basically fried chicken & allll the fixings) & she also made cookies & everything was disposable, sent with plates, silverware & she even sent homemade sweet tea. She wrote little notes on every single item with prayers & words of encouragement. It was MUCH NEEDED having my son in the hospital & having to heal from my c section.
2025-11-18 04:33:25
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L A U R A 💋 :
10/10 no notes
2025-11-17 20:57:04
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Kelsey :
bonus points if you bring another meal for the freezer that she can pull out any time they need it!
2025-11-17 20:18:41
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