@nicknamed.bree: ❤️🩹 Does your avoidant have some regret after ending things with you? Likely, yes. While I can’t speak for every avoidant, oftentimes their regret sinks in much later, long after you’ve moved on. It can take months, years, even DECADES. In this video, I share a bit about the things I’ve heard from both dismissive and fearful avoidants as they navigate the aftermath of the breakup.
Let’s clarify that this is a very mild regret. It’s not a crippling regret that we all want to see.
2025-11-19 18:08:45
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User11:11 :
Can this take 10+months?
2025-11-17 22:33:34
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Ashley Millan :
Why would an avoidant want to stay your friend after the breakup? We were together 7 years.. got discarded, ghosted for 7 months after discard and he came back wanting to be friends
2025-11-20 04:54:41
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peanutnut :
I mean but they never really experience the grief truly. It’s like moments of nostalgia. It feels hurtful even though I know it’s just how they are
2025-11-18 10:16:55
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user5496143604288 :
what if they cried after you left them first?
2025-11-17 21:46:06
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bmill3127 :
I’m blocked on everything… I’ll never know. I wish I had the clean break up and closure. But I’m chasing something that I’ll never get
2025-11-18 03:57:48
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KAITLYN LAMBECK :
What if he said 2 months ago he isn’t closing the door to forever because he doesn’t know what the future holds. I tried reaching out multiple times & the only time we talked was on the phone & he said he doesn’t see a future right now, but can’t 100% say that the door is closed. He said that he hasn’t taken the time to think about what happened because he trying to keep busy. 4 weeks later & still hasn’t reached out even though he said he would. Tried to follow up and I’m being ignored. 🙂🙃
2025-11-17 22:11:45
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nicole :
probably not if he has a new gf already right?
2025-11-18 11:20:57
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Tim Funk :
This breaks my heart for them
2025-11-17 22:40:24
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dana :
he moved on a week later and is not with someone else for the last 6 months while i try to heal🥲
2025-11-19 06:04:31
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backpack :
Do you think they miss knowing songs are being written about them 👀 also, do you think when they start thinking about these & missing you, if they reach out - how do you tell if they’re genuine & doing work?
2025-11-17 22:14:59
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tismyiphone :
I confirm and I am an avoidant fully
2025-11-20 22:44:58
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AMZ :
I dumped her cause I couldn't handle avoiding and she's FA, Will she comeback? Even If I did the discard, I know they back if they discard me but what happen if I did it.
2025-11-18 01:04:30
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hshae80 :
he shared and still shares everything with me.... says I'm the only one he can tell all things too..... yet he still avoids telling me the truth
2025-11-18 02:52:35
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Bigmama :
thanks bree ❤ appreciate you
2025-11-17 22:49:27
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Mickayish :
Thank you🙏
2025-11-18 12:46:26
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backpack :
Your skin looks especially glowy today - what product did you use 🤨 👀 ok going to watch the video now brb
2025-11-17 22:11:59
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in another universe :
thank you for this😭needed to hear it
2025-11-18 06:23:17
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The Blessing Report :
Missing and never coming back don’t matter haha
2025-11-18 03:14:35
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kellyn jo robison :
when the FA comes back after 4mo of no contact for something casual (breaking a boundary), was there something underneath the reach out that they aren’t letting on?
2025-11-19 13:03:35
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Es. :
The processing they do in a new relationship
2025-11-18 23:20:28
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Catlady :
Going through a divorce here. My avoidant thinks they are the victim in every relationship they are in (they told me their exes were the problem) so it’s really hard to imagine them ever getting to this point.
2026-01-01 00:51:40
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Brendan Wiemken :
3 months in, i know that she misses me. i hope she takes time to heal and grow. During our last phone call she said that i deserve someone better and she hopes i find it. i just hope when she is ready she comes back, i dont want someone else
2025-11-18 13:42:44
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randomnames09 :
I know mine will miss me. I know I’m the love of her life and she thinks of me every moment. We were awesome together for so long. The perfect team when it came to securing our future. Her health went bad, she put on weight and is in perimenopause and feels she can’t be the wife I deserve so she left before I could resent her. I’m healing but still miss my queen. I know she will never find happiness unless it is at my side so I intend to finish our live goals alone so when/if she comes home, she will get the life we dreamt of together.
2025-11-18 09:01:49
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