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Annie Basile :
I'm down bc nobody says yes when I initiate
2025-11-19 00:31:46
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essayhelpbyhollee :
Always down, never initiate 🙋♀️
2025-11-18 21:49:35
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Connor :
Introvert here, I always want to hang. I never initiate though because my comfort level is being home. It’s difficult for us, don’t make us feel bad about that
2025-11-19 15:12:04
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kyndal.anne :
literally stopped being friends w people bc of this lol i can’t stand being the only one in a friendship with the task of reaching out to initiate plans
2025-11-18 21:47:23
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Kiera Langdon :
A lot of the time me saying "hey let's hangout" is me initiating and I'm expecting a response of like yah we should here are the days that work for me
2025-11-18 17:42:33
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“I’m a very famous genius” DJT :
When I would initiate concerts, game night, dinner everyone had plans but when they would initiate I would go.
2025-11-18 13:39:12
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Ash :
When it’s my idea no one wants to do it
2025-11-19 18:53:39
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Blueskies23 :
Nothings more annoying than initiating and no one’s down so i end up being down and never initiating
2025-11-19 15:54:43
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dee tee ✨ :
Gotta stop initiating queen
2025-11-19 23:49:51
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cherry. :
Huge pet peeve. I've ended friendships over it.
2025-11-19 01:22:33
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leigh.leighhxX :
it’s bc when we try to initaite it’s usually turned down 🗣️. some people only want to hang out when THEY want to hang out, their never usually as equally “always down” as us !!!
2025-11-19 18:26:43
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Asha Amir :
I only invest in mutual connections
2025-12-26 04:05:12
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Christen Dugger :
Let’s avoid stigmatizing introverts or bullying them. Understanding and supportive dynamics can help everyone feel valued and included.
2025-11-30 18:54:24
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Juan Rosas3195 :
I'm down, Initiate, plan, book, research but the annoying part is when people cancel last minute 🤬🤬🤬
2025-11-20 04:29:53
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Teka :
Once I stopped initiating, I’ve spent more relaxing nights on my couch & in bed 🙂
2025-11-19 23:18:14
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abcdefuckice :
ok but what if you're the only single one in the group so you know initiating means everyone has other plans already and that's why you wait for them to initiate
2025-11-18 23:50:52
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Sharon Riveroy :
I no longer initiate because no one is down but I’m always down to hang when others suggest 🙂
2025-11-19 00:56:50
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さら sarah :
I stopped initiating because they'll either say they can't go or say they will but would cancel last minute, now it's my fault we don't see each other anymore??
2025-11-19 08:13:28
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Mandy :
A friend of mine is constantly like, “We’s love to have you over for dinner!” And never follows it up with “Would X day work?” etc. It’s just this invite into the ether, because I’m not going to invite myself over on a specific day
2025-11-18 21:05:20
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Rae Ruiz :
Everytime I’ve initiated plans never happen so I stopped. so yes I’m down just let me know. 🤷🏽♀️
2025-11-19 04:55:11
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Tara Dymus - Babbar :
I keep finding myself in this situation😭😭😭 I matter tooooo😭😭😭
2025-11-18 04:02:37
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Dyme :
My friend definitely has called me out about this I never initiated anything but he down for the plan now I try to be more mindful on setting something up .
2025-11-18 11:58:29
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Omari Allen :
I get being down but not initiating but then you don’t get to also be the “what’s the move” friend every weekend
2025-11-18 19:12:00
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noor.saad13 :
1000000000% agreed, so frustrating
2025-11-18 03:26:35
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alishanichole3 :
Buttttttt it’s not because we don’t care… I am an introvert (or now medicated for ADHD and no longer an introvert). So before meds, I had way too much anxiety to plan anything. Or also for ADHD out of sight out of mind is a big thing. I’m better at it now sort of.. but anxiety is still bad
2025-11-18 20:11:12
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