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Jesster 🇨🇦 :
It depends on what was done, imo. Learning when to cut people out of your life is an important skill, even family. It’s always hard when it’s family because a lot of people try to use the ‘yeah but they’re family’ bullshit. But you’re your own person, and deserve to be able to cut ties with toxic people.
2025-11-19 07:28:44
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zu huai :
hi everyone! thank you for the nice comments! I would like to say i am 19, hence, my hesitancy to go against my father is due to living with my family still- and as I’ve previously been “unwelcome from returning home” due to prior disagreements. Although i have other places to stay, i feel like if i do move out (even temporarily) i am burning a bridge with them permanently.
2025-11-19 08:38:57
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Col. bigfatsushiroll :
I've completely cut ties with my father and sister. going on 12 years. I've now got a new family and currently building a house for us. it can get better. but I'm not here to influence any decision. good luck carrot girl
2025-11-19 08:04:35
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Videogamecore :
I think true forgiveness all comes down to if the other party is willing to do more than just an apology. There isn’t anything wrong with also accepting the apology knowing it’s a gesture, and then avoiding them for your own sanity. Either way does involves you having to be the better person though - which is so much harder when you have justifiable reasons. You have the personal moral victory in that though ✨
2025-11-19 09:23:16
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roonzflx :
Always have a choice…even though it can be a crap outcome…never compromise on your beliefs.
2025-11-19 07:25:22
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Majesta07 :
Do not give in, you are an adult capable of making your own decisions. If someone is making you uncomfortable you certainly don’t need to be forced to be near them. Remove yourself from the situation if it is forced on you
2025-11-19 07:33:10
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Jump :
I moved out and didn’t talk to my father for a couple years before there was actually change in his actions. You don’t have to accept any apology especially when no action has been shown. If they do choose to cut ties with you permanently, I don’t know they saw you as family in the first place.
2025-11-19 14:50:41
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Matreya :
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2025-11-19 07:26:36
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liluzifan562 :
I think it depends on how much you'll see or interact with this person in the future. it may not be what you wanna hear or how you feel, but if you're going to have to bear with them a lot in the future it's better to make amends (even tho u did nothing wrong). I think life is better when everyone is at peace, especially because it's hard to avoid someone that is close family or related. end of the day you're an adult and i think you know best whether you should forgive them or not. you could also just slime them if you want your get back 😭
2025-11-19 07:43:15
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notbrian73 :
Depends on the situation sometimes it’s best to say no and just find a way to compromise maybe this helps for some people but it has worked for me
2025-11-19 08:20:32
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G :
Nothing can be forced. If there are consequences you can always just accept the consequences. They cannot stop you physically removing yourself from a situation if you want. I've refused dinners and lunches with family because there was someone I didn't want to see. A parent can only pressure you because they feel like they can. If you're a stone wall against pressure then they will stop eventually. You should also let them know that they are more than welcome to destroy their relationship with you for the other person.
2025-11-19 08:30:48
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James 🌱 :
Just avoid them as much as you need to. Hold the higher ground. Don't engage emotionally if something upsetting happens - just leave, don't react.
2025-11-19 08:46:19
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Duetplayer :
a lot comes down to the details regarding the situation and your willingness to forgive. if you don't want to forgive, it's fine, now it becomes a point where you need to cut ties with that person or not. i guess just based from the vague story you mentioned, you could always still choose to avoid that person deliberately and maybe be more vocal about it. maybe an example would be in a family gathering scenario you could just let them know that "I forgive you, but please stay away from me, I am deliberately avoiding you because I'm very uncomfortable with your presence" it brings awareness not only to that person but everyone else present as well. it will be awkward, there will be talks, but I feel like it's something that needs to be done to draw the line. after this is just time. time will either slowly heal or just slowly let you drift away from that person.
2025-11-19 12:16:53
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Jayden :
You move away
2025-11-19 12:45:15
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Aadil :
There are many ways to handle this situation and at times it is wise to cut ties but at times you have to look at what else could be affected if you take a certain route, while saying sorry could be hard for you but it might make things better for your family or you could not apologise and it might have an affect on the family dynamics, as I don't know what kind scenarios are linked to this small but heavy word, I would advise you to express your feelings to your parents and ask them straight up what this sorry will do and if not said what might be the consequences to it. A conversation between you and your parents is the best way to get an understanding. And convey your feelings to your family of you disliking that person at best you will meet them for a hello and a five minute chat and then you'll be on your way. And don't burn bridges with your closest family as they are also humans and might make mistakes at times
2025-11-19 13:25:46
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