@braverher: ITS NOT SELFISH to prioritize your safety & peace. you do not owe anyone your presence. and if the relationships that you’re the villain in were contingent on your silence- they were never safe spaces to be in anyways♥️ save this when the holidays get to be a bit too much. we’re in this together now. #SAsurvivor #sasurvivorsupport #healingtrauma #cocsasurvivor #cptsdrecovery

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emma.defrietas
Emma Defrietas :
Yall go listen to Matilda by harry styles that’s what this reminds me of
2025-11-20 02:24:01
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ciconis
Secret 🫰🏻 :
You shouldn't have to push yourself into a panic attack just to be with family
2025-11-20 14:10:39
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caitsreflection
Cait 💕 :
Not setting myself on fire to keep everyone else warm.
2025-11-19 18:36:14
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the.nortski
The Nortski :
year 4 of creating my own traditions with my kids, and the first yr I havent gotten a guilt trip from my Mom. My kids and I are camping and white water rafting for Thrill Ride Thursday, aka our Thanksgiving rebrand
2025-11-21 21:30:19
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unknown8675309
Kmunny :
This is my first year not going home. It is the hardest decision I have had to make. Im protecting my daughters from toxic people and environments
2025-11-22 15:49:48
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insideout2022
Motherjuno :
Girl yes. Protect our peace.
2025-11-20 01:12:59
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thatsthewayilovedlou
lou :
Moved across the country after leaving her a note that said I won't be back until she heals. I know I'm not coming back. That's okay, I'm happier here.
2025-11-25 22:17:26
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nicoledam97
Nicole :
Ugh I think this is the sign I needed to hold my boundaries 😅
2025-11-22 00:08:09
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mariahspin
Mariah :
Thank you 💗
2025-11-20 14:46:34
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wearenovadawn
nova system :
I lost my while family and most of my friends this year bc they sided with my abusers (my parents). I will never go back to them. Spending my holidays with my husband's family instead. 🥰
2025-11-20 02:56:36
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russ2006mvo
Anna 💕 :
😭needed this reassurance that I'm making the right choice to not go
2025-11-21 03:53:44
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mindysmouth
Mindy Love ❤️ :
i felt this. thank you gurl.
2025-11-19 19:00:36
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ambergroth6
ambergroth6 :
Thank you 🥰
2025-11-21 15:55:05
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remi.cuomo
Remi Cuomo | Photojournalist :
This honestly just gave me the push to share the things i’ve been holding back about my journey through these situations ❤️Thank you for reminding me that taking the step and drawing boundaries is courageous✨
2025-11-20 03:38:50
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squirrelgirlthekittencat
squirrelgirlthekittencat :
I needed to hear this. My mom screamed at me and hung up on me when I told her I wasnt coming. Thank you for the reassurance ❤
2025-11-21 14:36:24
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jowltowel
jowltowel :
This will be my 3rd Christmas not going “home” and I have such peace. I’ve started our own traditions. My dog doesn’t have to be locked in a room all day.
2025-12-05 16:30:59
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fairy3princesss
fairy3princess :
First time setting a boundary and not going to holiday dinner
2025-11-21 18:12:59
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chosenfan2022
chosenfan2022 :
Not doing thanksgiving this year/ certain family members are extremely toxic to be around and I’m over it.
2025-11-24 14:31:49
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bstone412
Brittney Elizabeth :
You need to make this a sound!!
2025-11-21 18:19:41
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salientsilver13
Salient :
Needed this so much thank you. Definitely got a follow from me 💚
2025-11-27 01:22:11
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erinnicole0209
Erin Nicole 💚💙 :
I needed to hear this ✨
2025-11-20 01:12:55
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bitterrrsssweeet
bitterrrsssweeet :
I feel guilty, my family isn’t bad . But they don’t really know me and I don’t want to have to fake being happy for ppl.
2025-11-27 21:03:20
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marlanaduehring
⚯ ͛ ❾¾ Marlana Duehring ▕⃝⃤ 𓅓 :
yesss 👏👏 I love this 💜💜 my happiness and mental health and the family I created is more important 💜💜
2025-12-02 19:52:28
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iamteresadiana
Teresa 🌹 :
It’s been 10 years since I’ve spent holidays with my “family” it’s my birthday today, and for the first time in forever I could care less about what their happy family does during the holidays.
2025-11-28 14:44:42
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abilitymom
Ability Blind Mom :
❤ Happy Holidays beautiful human
2025-11-20 00:07:14
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