@travisambrosecoach: The one thing I want you to take from this more than anything: Avoidants aren’t bad people 👈 They’re people with unhealed wounds that make love feel unsafe. That doesn’t erase responsibility, it just adds context. And they’re not the only ones. We all carry patterns that once kept us safe but now keep us stuck. That’s why I created a course that walks you through how to earn secure attachment and build relationships that actually last. Link in bio 💗
ok, I've been so understanding of all of this. but I can't keep shrinking to appease his wounds. knowing why they are that way doesn't negate the pain of months of being abandoned during all the hardest moments and never facing any accountability
2025-11-24 11:39:14
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Rosie :
What if I asked him multiple time to open up slowly and he just says “ It’s hard for me..!” What am I supposed to do?
2025-11-22 09:11:47
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mljpage :
You make them sound so innocent - it’s not. No matter what background you have, there are no excuse to treat people like that. Shutting down, stonewalling, refusing accountability, blame the other for everything, emotional abuse.
2025-11-21 11:38:09
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1111Sabine1111 :
Nope. They really do not care. The ONLY thing they care about is themselves.
2025-12-11 16:29:38
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Subee :
The problem is that the walls are often so thick the avoidant is unaware that they are walls and it causes pain to others.
2025-11-19 20:30:55
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