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Ari.StarFire :
Avoidants are triggered by healthy relationship behavior
2025-11-21 02:18:20
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Calvin :
I cannot tell you how much this helped me this morning, good lord. THANK YOU for posting this. 😭🥹🫶🏼❤️🩹
2025-11-21 16:51:42
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jnutz24 :
If you're not ready for a relationship, stop forming emotional bonds you have no intention of honoring.
2025-11-20 20:58:19
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cyn 🦋 :
A person who makes another fall in love with no intention of staying and loving them back is a despicable coward
2025-11-21 02:24:19
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mars :
So what im hearing is that I’m so perfect that it’s scary 😃
2025-11-21 03:19:20
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iwishiwasaminion:( :
my therapist told me the reason he did it to me was bc i was prly the closest thing to perfect he had ever had and when ppl haven’t been shown love their entire lives it doesn’t heal them it scares them deeply so they sabotage
2025-11-24 08:12:01
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yo.migeruuu :
Do the avoidants come back genuinely wanting to be with you again after time passes
2025-11-21 18:11:30
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Tim Funk :
I have been on a journey of trying to continually improve myself because I feel as if I wasn’t enough in our relationship. So I guess that is a good thing cause it’s leading me to work hard and improve my life.
2025-11-20 18:06:23
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Luke Alexander Brooks :
So you're saying there's a level of good beyond perfect where they will stay? 🤔
2025-11-21 00:57:21
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Lu :
this actually helps so much
2025-11-20 21:24:16
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JakeFeffer :
My ex has told everyone I was perfect.
2025-11-20 20:10:06
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ashleyasunder :
this made me want to cry
2025-11-21 19:10:28
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Kelly :
She literally told me this. She said I did everything right, and it would’ve worked if she were in a different place.
2025-11-21 11:53:42
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The Blessing Report :
Thanks mom
2025-11-21 02:06:06
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calliope535 :
Thank you
2026-01-16 01:10:20
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thesassybratosaur🩶🩵💙 :
I think the biggest thing is when you know you weren’t your best in that relationship for whatever reason. I’m not talking toxic, but you could have actually been better, now that you’ve done inner work. But now you have these doubts of yourself where you accept you weren’t perfect, and their actions of discarding or ghosting you have perpetuated the story that “you know you weren’t good enough or your best.”
2025-11-20 19:02:25
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Y :
I need to know where u got ur top- and my avoidant would say I am to me but opposite to others 😭😭😭 the day before he was getting married which I knew nothing about we were supposed to be married- he called me drunk to say I’m so pure kind good beautiful
2025-11-23 02:05:24
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jnutz24 :
No matter how much love you give you cannot, CANNOT, love the hurt/trauma out of them. I tried, didnt go great.💜
2025-11-20 20:54:02
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Fifteen Two🃏 :
what's your safe word?
2025-11-21 01:49:06
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Izzy :
I needed this. Thank you.
2025-11-23 03:01:59
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Kimberly 💫 :
It’s true… I didn’t realize how I felt until after I ended it with him. So painful. It’s how I learned about having fearful avoidance.
2025-11-21 04:08:53
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julierose467 :
My FA keeps telling me I’m perfect
2026-01-06 13:35:44
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kitty :
i can confirm this is how i am. it's not about you, it's my own shit that makes me withdraw
2025-11-29 07:49:19
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Jill no Jack :
I was perfect, he left because my friend told him she thought he was taking advantage of me
2025-11-25 01:37:33
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Allison Joy :
As a healing anxiously attached person, how do we know where the line is between taking accountability for our parts and beating ourselves up to an unnecessary extent? Alternatively, when do we know we’re assigning them their fair share vs. protecting our egos and “building our self worth” by avoiding accountability?
2025-11-21 22:01:00
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