@chris_hatfield: Anxious Attachment: Why you want them to text you more #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #texting #insecure #anxious

RockCityKicks :

What if they tell you they’re busy or going to be busy and takes them hours to reply but when they check they leave you on read after you told them you don’t like that?

👑Justin👑 :

Ik it’s rough I’m going on 4 minutes now

MoonFan83 :

Okay, where tf are the cams??? I LITERALLY had a breakdown about this shit last night😭

Bryan sole :

Guilty 🙈

BradyFournier2001 :

They have changed, 48 hours now and nothing. They have someone new. I’m not needed

WendyJean :

I somewhat disagree. When patterns change and the frequency and or tone of texts change it’s almost 100% accurate to say that something is up.

92aims :

No, actually. It’s because they ignore me all day and then reply at 9pm and then go to bed. If the only communication you get from them is a txt (they don’t bother to call), then of course you’d want a more consistent conversation. People feeling anxious aren’t always doing so because of past wounds or unreasonable expectations.

Chels 🌸🎀 :

these videos always hit at the perfect time. thank you for bringing awareness and providing easy solutions Chris 🙏

masoj :

I really needed this today, thank you

Clare Hampson :

Hit the nail on the head.... always scared that eventually it will stop 😢

hoggie247 :

I always wondered why I was like this. Now that I sit and think I see where it comes from.

JadeS :

because im a plep 😂 literally he couldnt be more into me and the devil on shoulder is like nope 🙈 but im winning over it ❤

Tophat2776 :

How many times am I going to see this video on loop?

ford :

true, its so draining for me, but im working on it, thanks for the videos❤️

cam1 :

Thank you man, I relate to thsi so much, I have bad anxious attachment but luckily I’m getting better and getting through it

ABunn :

What if the fear of being abandoned comes from actually being abandoned by multiple people throughout your life?

Tindercopyrightedmyname :

I don’t need to be read so hard

Squattillyoupuke :

Holy crap that’s me 😳

sarahluvssarcasm420 :

I'm actually working on not doing this. I do reply right away, but I won't multi text. I remind myself he had a normal upbringing and my constant need for reassurance is unreasonable. his kids are young, my daughter is older. I'm actually doing way better than I ever would have if I was young (I'm 47).

Joseph :

Ok but these comments are teenagers who aren't even in relationships

your wonderwall taro :

jess 🥰 :

yupppp

Kingzley Booth :

Honestly I love the videos this is so me and these really are helping me stop going straight to the worse scenario

🇮🇪Sarah_in_UK🇮🇪 :

sometimes I just wana talk ... 🤦🏼‍♀️

💋RedGirl💋 :

We have a problem, don't attack us😅😳