@chris_hatfield: Anxious Attachment: Why you want them to text you more #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #texting #insecure #anxious

MoonFan83 :

Okay, where tf are the cams??? I LITERALLY had a breakdown about this shit last night😭

👑Justin👑 :

Ik it’s rough I’m going on 4 minutes now

BradyFournier2001 :

They have changed, 48 hours now and nothing. They have someone new. I’m not needed

92aims :

No, actually. It’s because they ignore me all day and then reply at 9pm and then go to bed. If the only communication you get from them is a txt (they don’t bother to call), then of course you’d want a more consistent conversation. People feeling anxious aren’t always doing so because of past wounds or unreasonable expectations.

WendyJean :

I somewhat disagree. When patterns change and the frequency and or tone of texts change it’s almost 100% accurate to say that something is up.

Bryan sole :

Guilty 🙈

Chels 🌸🎀 :

these videos always hit at the perfect time. thank you for bringing awareness and providing easy solutions Chris 🙏

Clare Hampson :

Hit the nail on the head.... always scared that eventually it will stop 😢

RockCityKicks :

What if they tell you they’re busy or going to be busy and takes them hours to reply but when they check they leave you on read after you told them you don’t like that?

ABunn :

What if the fear of being abandoned comes from actually being abandoned by multiple people throughout your life?

Tophat2776 :

How many times am I going to see this video on loop?

hoggie247 :

I always wondered why I was like this. Now that I sit and think I see where it comes from.

Tindercopyrightedmyname :

I don’t need to be read so hard

JadeS :

because im a plep 😂 literally he couldnt be more into me and the devil on shoulder is like nope 🙈 but im winning over it ❤

masoj :

I really needed this today, thank you

ford :

true, its so draining for me, but im working on it, thanks for the videos❤️

cam1 :

Thank you man, I relate to thsi so much, I have bad anxious attachment but luckily I’m getting better and getting through it

Squattillyoupuke :

Holy crap that’s me 😳

sarahluvssarcasm420 :

I'm actually working on not doing this. I do reply right away, but I won't multi text. I remind myself he had a normal upbringing and my constant need for reassurance is unreasonable. his kids are young, my daughter is older. I'm actually doing way better than I ever would have if I was young (I'm 47).

Joseph :

Ok but these comments are teenagers who aren't even in relationships

Melancholic taroo :

Kingzley Booth :

Honestly I love the videos this is so me and these really are helping me stop going straight to the worse scenario

jess 🥰 :

yupppp

Mandy 🌟💜 :

Well, you definitely called me out there

Pariah :

Working on this...