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Clodia Frazil :

Whole time it be their own inner thoughts.

Phoénix Swan :

My mom in fact does this. 😂 She’ll say I wish I had your natural hair and you should wear it. Then in front of other people she said she hopes my son doesn’t have hair like me. That it wasn’t good hair. Then gaslit me again with college

Jay Rocks :

To be fair, i know people that constantly say, wear your natural hair then say, you’re not doing it right because it should look like xyz.

blacksterling1 :

The “y’all” part of online conversations infuriates me.

naomi wanjira | phd & life 💫 :

you’re making too much sense, sis, slow down!

Sito 🏳️‍🌈 :

Fr! I hate that narrative of “y’all tell us to abc, and when we do, y’all xyz”. CLEARLY two different groups of people.

Lea ⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ :

I haaaate the “these are the same ppl who-“ argument, because you have no evidence of that being true and almost no way to find out 😭

myburneracc :

Right! “Y’all tell us to go vegan then make fun of us for eating vegetables”

Janell Louis-Charles :

Athenia Anderson :

“You guys only like long natural hair” not me! I love seeing all lengths of natural hair!

🦑 :

I get more compliments when i wear my natural hair tbh

malkiapendeza :

and why are we valuing hater opinions??? when did we start doing that again? we losing the recipes. my own mama said something sideways and i ignored her … then like a fan she went natural too 😊

ty :

I feel like we don't give people any kind of grace or empathy.I give what you're saying , but at the same time , it kind of feels dismissive

Kenya :

you making too much sense now!

crxngecxre :

"yall" and its their own inner thoughts 😱

makya 🫧 :

you never miss! & sidenote: the robe is so cuteee

cancelmysubscriptionnow :

They forget we’re not a monolith 😅😂

ccc_xhri :

I HATE when something happens and people are like “weren’t yall …” OBVIOUSLY ITS TWO DIFFERENT GROUP OF PEOPLE

ㅤ :

i agree with you completely but yes my mom has insulted me naturally hair and then later told me to wear it 😭

🙂 :

Such a good point and honestly applies to most things on the internet. People are quick to say that “the same ppl that say this, also say this”… those are 2 diff groups!

Corkandbeans :

U been speaking facts lmao

@crystaluncut :

I’m gonna have to disagree on this one, just in my personal experience, a lot of people who say “wear your natural hair” mean “wear your natural hair only, and i mean only, on day 3 of a perfect twist out. anything else will be made fun of.”

Julie👻 :

I hate when ppl say stuff like that in general like that whole “yall switch up so fast” no they don’t that’s just a different ppl bru😭

shanta샨테 :

For real! I get that the insults are hurtful but at some point one has to distance themselves from the ppl being hurtful and focus on the people being encouraging and positive.

Tanisha V :

While I don’t have those feelings/thoughts…but this is definitely a venn diagram lol