@nicknamed.bree: Have you ever experienced an avoidant becoming jealous if you? Because avoidant people are often drawn to those they admire, it’s not unusual for them to grow to resent you & even become extremely jealous over time. This can breed such a toxic dynamic.

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0042443_411609
0042443_411609 :
I felt it but I couldn’t prove it
2025-11-24 03:45:18
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coolbackpack
backpack :
I think the way mine belittled me for my “big feelings” and capacity for so much emotion was a tell that they felt insecure of their own shortcomings in that area.
2025-11-22 20:44:15
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stmj111133355544472
🧿🌀🪼🦋🌪️🏵️✨ :
he degraded me at the end
2025-11-23 19:25:38
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paris25723
paris :
This is SO true. I never felt supported by my DA when it came to accomplishing my goals or hitting big milestones. I always sensed a sense of jealousy. Like a secret hater. I don’t understand how someone can claim to love you but secretly hate you for being better than them
2025-11-24 07:08:23
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heatheronthehilloc
Heather on the hill :
My avoidant copied EVERYTHING I did or said - the way I ate, what I ate, slang I used, any little thing.
2026-01-20 20:38:03
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thecomebackdad
TRON🎣🇺🇸💯 :
Crazy because all I did was help her in every aspect of her life
2025-11-23 15:50:57
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scorchcake
user4624159139127 :
Mine said in an argument, "You're expected to do great things, big things, good things. People just know you will." I guess that means mine is jealous because he feels he never will accomplish big or great things or have people be proud of him for it. Even though I constantly told him I was proud of him every chance I got.
2025-11-23 01:25:37
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leelo138
Leelo138 :
Mine said when they were drunk, “you just express what you want, I’m jealous because I can’t do that.” I didn’t know anything about avoidance. I was like who are you!?
2025-11-23 01:56:35
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autoriot
Josh :
Yes. Mine said that I made her feel bad about herself because I love her so much. And I was like, wait…what?
2025-11-22 21:43:19
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jordan_of_venus
jordan :
First avoidant was jealous of my confidence and admitted it. Second avoidant was jealous of my finances I think. He would make comments about me being bougie or about quality purchases I made for myself.
2025-11-23 03:16:51
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mike508617
mike508617 :
My avoidant ex was always in competition w me. She would never admit it, but her actions did
2025-11-22 22:52:40
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jaycamilley
Juice 🇺🇸🤷🏾‍♀️🦅 :
I swear he wanted to morph into me, and he never congratulated my school accomplishments. They are weird ppl
2025-11-23 13:29:13
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1kdion
Perkiooo :
She was jealous of everything, my family , my achievements, my security
2025-11-23 13:21:51
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edubs78
Erin :
She didn’t say that exactly, but she did say that she thought I was more emotionally mature than her, and in her last relationship it was the other way around.
2025-11-22 17:28:37
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warmblanket015
warmblanket :
she said she is envy and I don't even understand. i am confused
2026-01-11 12:50:10
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bigmamatyranitar
Bigmama :
think it was emotions. they always said they can't feel emotions like normal people. or feel. I think he tries. but he can't. he was so sweet and told me he thought I was really intelligent too . I thought it wise to tell him I qualified for the air force but didn't do it. cause he was military ( army) he told paused for quiet and then was like that didn't surprise me you're really smart. I internally squealed. but looking back he got colder around that time too. 😮‍💨 he definitely built up resentment as a fearful avoidant and kept his needs inside. even though I asked if he needed space ect. we ended things when it became emotionally abusive. I told him to block mee. he was telling me my emotions were too much I was too much. my emotions make him sick to his stomach. he was nit picking my PTSD trauma responses. when I didn't say anything about his. so I told him to block me. it's been 40 plus days of no contact. I'm hoping I get to a point where I just forget him. 😔
2025-11-22 17:53:38
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candicebpeterson
candicebre :
I totally believe this. There were times when he would emulate me. I found it strange but ignored it.
2025-11-23 06:06:17
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nicsusie
Nic Susie :
Yep mine was totally jealous. He slipped up almost daily
2025-11-23 22:47:22
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khosarav
RK :
Two months ago he said ‘you work out, you have such close relationships with everyone in your family. Your extended family protects you. You have a good job. You have close friends’….hes said this to me 2-3x already. And when I ask him, he says he doesn’t have a jealous bone in his body. 🧐
2026-01-15 14:11:34
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krioontt
KrioFunnelcakeonTT :
A person I liked with a avoidant leaning attach style did recently tell me that she wished she could give gifts the way I did. She was also kinda overwhelmed by the gifts I gave bc of the level of thoughtfulness and said she felt like she was in secret competition w me.
2026-01-13 12:33:13
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thetrogg0
thetrogg :
My ex said, you really are perfect, after I told her the sacrifices I had to make in a past relationship. I thought it was shade at the time, but I don’t know.
2026-01-18 17:34:24
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tawandas7
Tawanda’s :
He was SO jealous that I treat people well, have friends, and own my own business. 😂
2025-12-20 00:31:02
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mashaboom_
Adrian Castro :
she uses all my words does things the way I do also. I admire that tho.
2025-11-23 01:21:07
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riosloco
Rios :
Yes
2025-11-23 20:49:29
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user2905813812124
Braindump01 :
I have cancer and don’t work and I strongly suspect he was jealous that I didn’t work
2026-01-18 03:44:13
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