@lucas.project: I see one major issue in many relationships: A mismatched relationship to substances. One side is devoted to their sobriety and secretly wishes the other would join them. Then they never do and occasionally consume too much, making the other side grow resentful. I played that game and I promise it’s really not worth it. Being married to someone who is also sober is a massive breath of fresh air. A deeper level of trust and safety has been created that I didn’t think was possible. But it began with one thing: Both of us were committed to finding someone who was sober in the first place. Don’t compromise on what you deserve to experience. #relationships #healing #datingadvice

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jessemansion
Kelly :
Short answer. NO.
2025-12-27 16:54:11
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justbeyou2222
🄽🄰🄳🄸🄰 11.11 :
But I didn’t drink until I met him… I drank because of the stress of him and his actions, he was drinking and didn’t … hence why I left
2026-01-16 08:26:17
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cristinaminnick8
Crissy :
I got sober a year before my husband. I'm not gonna lie, it was the hardest year of our relationship. I stuck it out and he got sober! we're better than ever!
2025-12-22 16:14:54
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user6674533458043
user6674533458043 :
I turned 50 in November and I decided for my birthday gift to quit drinking. My wife on her own decided to quit also. It’s been the best 7.5 weeks we’ve ever had. I physically and mentally feel incredible. As does she. Wish we did this years ago. But it is what it is, no looking back. We are excited about our future together.
2025-12-30 22:23:49
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virginiasilba1
Child of God ✝️🧎🏻‍♀️ :
Amen amen!!
2025-12-23 03:55:52
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stefanie_lynn14
✨stefanie_lynn14✨ :
Amen ♥️👏
2026-01-09 22:43:53
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rhiannonmorris355
Rhiannon :
It doesn't work as my ex did and i didn't unless special occasions. I now realise relationships who drink together are not wise. The highest frequency of love for a relationship won't involve a lifestyle around alcohol and/or other substances and that's the healthy relationship worth having.
2025-11-23 03:29:38
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justamom360
Brandi :
No
2025-11-23 04:11:54
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its3andahalfgirls
🌱flexi vegan 🌱 :
No
2025-12-31 21:06:46
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jfseg2
jfseg2 :
Nope
2025-12-22 03:37:13
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jenniferresse
jenniferresse :
NOPE
2025-12-22 05:39:46
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diego.carrillo39
Mexican golfer :
Hey man, I need some help. I don’t drink but my gf rarely and on special occasions drinks and she has showed me she is good and loyal when she does. But every single time I see her drink or she talks about it or smell alcohol on her breath it really kills me and my mood. Idk what to do. I feel like im being so annoying by this but it just kills me and I don’t know what to do
2026-02-11 06:11:14
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savage.galrrr
Savage Galr :
exactly!
2026-01-01 20:08:31
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matthewcharnetski
Matt Charnetski :
Or you could just have open conversations with your partner. Yes a relationship can work. I’ve first hand watched a 50 year marriage work when one person drinks and the other doesn’t because they talk. Also they can argue and get over arguments
2025-12-21 07:04:58
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larabara41
user7571428933076 :
Agreed 💯
2026-01-09 20:25:23
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pobx8
Pobix :
ia there man who dont drink?
2026-01-13 22:35:03
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lessismore315
lessismore :
It’s the same thing with smoking or pretty much any addiction. I watched my parents go in rounds for years both trying to stop smoking, but one of them would keep doing it and then the other one would join back in. They both didn’t stop until my mom literally got diagnosed with lung cancer. That’s what it took. It shouldn’t have gotten to that point and it was awful to watch because my grandmother died of lung cancer at age 54. I knew that if my mom didn’t stop that was gonna happen to her because that’s what went on in my family ‘s medical history. I begged her when I was in junior high to stop.
2026-01-02 12:33:11
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nothern.lights8
Nothern lights :
I am agree what you say
2026-04-09 07:51:09
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bcnt_94
BCNT_94 :
Super funny, I drink & he doesn't but he was most definitely the problem. Can't pin all problems on alcohol
2025-11-23 03:21:29
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plantlover666zombeemum
C Rangel Rangel :
Yes I can work as long as both are hard workers and goals @Ruth B
2025-12-20 18:41:05
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soychelag
soychelag :
❤❤❤
2026-01-11 05:28:03
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officially.whoami
WhoAmI :
@Senolla@Delira#D#15
2026-04-23 19:11:56
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mandla.boris.moloi
mandla boris moloi mseleku :
@NanahNdimande
2026-06-09 06:31:09
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skinductive
Skinductive Aesthetics :
💯💯💯💯
2025-11-23 15:33:36
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totallynotanna14
totallynotAnna14 :
@Josiah Franklin
2026-02-22 01:45:37
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