@the_interventionalists: just some late night thoughts #wlw #lesbian #lgbtq #dating #dvawareness

Niki Christine 💜
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Monday 24 November 2025 03:13:00 GMT
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are1ish
arelish :
I fell down a rabbit hole (scrolling through your page)… you should consider writing a book cause you understand and put it into words so beautifully
2025-11-24 11:46:52
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robi__91
robi__91 :
So relatable ❤️‍🩹 I love how you shared that “relationship is worth the risk.” You are so right, the only way to heal is to have new experiences that change and rewrite us.
2025-11-24 03:50:36
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drumgirl92
drumgirl92 :
agreed
2025-11-24 03:20:49
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k.the.way
Kat 🇮🇪 🏳️‍🌈 :
Something my therapist got me to do was writing down non negotiables & a very clear line of disrespect & have that written down so I can refer back to it. Ie I will excuse 3 times someone missing a boundary (IF they apologise when told it was a boundary) but past that, it’s goodbye. A non-negotiable for me is giving me space when I’m overstimulated. As long as I communicate that with them so they aren’t guessing, I won’t accept less than that. Things like that have helped me nope out of relationships so much faster rather than keep giving them the benefit of the doubt. I’m up front with them about these things so they know & I state they can ask what they are again any time but once it has been communicated, if they don’t respect that then it’s over. I also encourage them to see clear boundaries with me as well. It also helps with communication. Now some are good at manipulating the situation but overall it helps
2025-11-24 08:53:35
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meagansponseller
Meagan Sponseller :
I don’t think you can ever truly know. I’m learning how to attribute what happened in the past to the person (or myself) and not what that person was to me. So not to a relationship, parent, friendship. It was the person, not the person because of the label. Also, knowing when to give someone grace to be human versus when to cut them off is so helpful.
2025-11-24 06:56:10
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