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Zoë :

me after dating the most nicest kindest wonderful man

Alwaystl :

Not biologically, it’s socially trained by the patriarchial system

Bri :

as a boy mom I'd like to add - when they have to do anything! themselves the bare minimum is fine. when they ask YOU to do it, they want all the bells and whistles. do with that info what u will.

kiki :

user94746294837262849939 :

Girl this isn’t a hot take this is facts.

KeeshSaidWhat :

Instead of holding them accountable we’re blaming biology?

River :

Yup!!! My next one for sure will be a blue collar who knows how to fix things around the house…I’m tired of these dainty office men with delicate hands

g✨ :

Biologically WE should be more selfish. Growing a baby is not easy. But they have somehow brainwashed us into thinking THEY are the prize. Like, how?

Amber L 🦋 :

I always say, "if he isn't adding to your life, he is subtracting!"

user_215241950 :

I was raised to believe that the man I picked should always be doing more for me than I am for him. The men in my family set these standards and I stuck to them. My Grandpa used to tell us that if my partner isn’t making my life better, I need to find one that will.. I followed this advice and ended up with a generous and loving provider.

Self-Lover Girl :

Getting your life force energy back is the breakup glow up.

Possibly*me :

biology is such a slippery slope argument

katarina :

Or hear me out: live alone and become celibate ✨

_heyrachl :

Emphasis on the energy vampire. I’ve come to that realization recently as well

thevictoriablack :

Wait. This is a great take??

Victoria :

Cancelled?? Ma’am I think you mean endorsed

Eva.fox🍉 :

Idk that it’s inherently a biological prerogative of men, but it’s ABSOLUTELY how they’re socialized in a patriarchy.

Thehighbarsociety :

If there’s anything I’ve ever learned…..it’s hold back from giving and give yourself everything you want to give to him lol. Aka do nothing or close to it. It will change ur life

Virgosvantage :

Listen I have been saying this for a long time. Since I was 28, I am now 42 and single. If you have nothing to add to the table, we can not continue this relationship. I was told I am being picky

Truman :

There is no such thing as traits like selfishness being biologically inherent. That’s a product of societal conditioning, and gender essentialist takes like that actually let men off the hook because it implies they can’t change

Talie :

The energy vampiring is so so so real.

ShaiBabii :

this is what shera7 preaches and they hate her so bad cuz it’s facts

meretrices.futuere :

This goes quadruple if you plan of having kids.

♱ 🍃Kate🍃 ♱ :

100000% changed my life when I shifted my people pleasing mindset. In turn, my partner respects me more

brittanyboland349 :

Had me at the first sentence lol