@revengeofthegoodgirl: #avoidant #datingadvice #avoidant #relationshipadvice #creatorsearchinsights avoidant attachment style, anxious attachment style, things I learned dating an avoidant, how to make an avoidant miss you, when an avoidant pulls back.
I outplayed my avoidant. Because thanks to him I learned that I’m avoidant too. Lol. When he stepped back I was relieved and stepped back twice the time. Now he’s obsessed with me. And I figured out I’m avoidant
2025-11-24 22:37:44
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♡ :
It’s possible but imagine spending your life always controlling yourself, never being able to completely let yourself fall and feel loved
2025-11-25 11:25:02
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sunny.candy.day :
It IS hard work! And self control. DO NOT chase them, let them be litterally act like you don’t know them. They will come back.
2025-11-24 22:13:45
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random 345 :
even if you can get them to stay long term they won't meet even 3% of your emotional needs and you'll end up a shell of yourself
2025-11-26 18:01:01
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lazzyytiktoker :
I pulled back harder and started dating his coworker. 😩😂
2025-11-25 16:29:46
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Marjorie💎🌹 :
Once I realized I really didn’t want or need to love bombing my whole aura changed. I actually like the space, I don’t know why I fought against it so much. I have all this time to do what I want and when I see him is like not a day has passed. But if during the space I happen to find someone ready for a label I might just explore that. Until then just enjoying the experience, loving him, learning about me, trying and taking notes.
2025-11-25 02:29:37
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Just Nancy :
Avoidant don’t care they will just run to another instead of being faithful
2025-11-28 03:42:38
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ramonaw19 :
girl! yes yes and yes! our situationship is not a soft Lifetime love story, but is definitely a New York Times bestselling psychological thriller.
2025-11-25 02:07:12
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Jackie :
Just not worth the trouble honestly…
2025-11-25 02:19:43
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Manny_queen :
Always important to ask yourself whether he is avoidant or he simply doesn’t like you enough. Sometimes it’s difficult to differentiate, sometimes it’s both. Regardless, stay away from these type of men…
2025-11-25 00:50:55
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Makeup.chersoumi :
they destroy Ur life because they like punishments and boy I am a very detached person, but they always hold power especially financial..they r usually self made millionaires with an evil plan and they do chase
2025-11-25 10:39:56
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Inhaling Beauty | Self-love :
Avoidant are men in pain.
2025-12-11 22:26:11
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Sam :
#1 run
2025-11-25 19:11:21
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Monique :
They use distance to control
2025-11-26 09:05:34
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Pixie 👽🧚💗 :
My avoidant has been blocked for two weeks now. Im hoping a couple more weeks & ill be in the clear from this cycle
2025-12-08 05:08:17
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cookies&crime :
you have to be emotionally mature enough to trigger their abandonment wound. ghost them when things are good, especially after they open up to you. be their cannon event.
2025-12-01 08:47:07
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Shai Blessing🇿🇦 :
Avoid the Avoidant
2025-12-13 03:44:56
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Giacomo Puccini 🐶💗 :
Just get away from them why even bother
2025-11-25 15:43:13
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🖤 :
“As an avoidant person, it’s not something we choose or control. Our brain just shuts down the feelings at some point, thinking it’s protecting us a pattern shaped by childhood trauma. It’s never intentional.
2025-11-25 15:23:05
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GoGo | Astrologer :
why did my avoidant stop viewing my stories after saying he liked me and talking to me more?
2025-11-24 22:05:25
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˚⊱🎀⊰˚ ⋆˚࿔🍓 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ ⋆.˚🦋༘⋆ :
i’m an avoidant but i’ve only attracted other avoidants like me.. which in turn has made me more avoidant….
2025-11-25 16:48:33
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aquablushgirl :
As an avoidant myself I do not agree with the comments saying ignore and make them chase. Because I never chase. Maybe men do but I don’t. But I do respond to grown up, calm, non-emotional greetings if we haven’t spoken for a few days. Just a non dramatic non confrontational hello and not bringing up feelings etc. I like casual maturity. It reels me in.
2025-11-26 18:20:07
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☆.kikwai.☆ :
me watching this as an avoidant
2025-11-25 18:55:59
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hun pun :
How do you get in their head?
2025-11-25 03:21:34
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