theanxietyhealer
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Fabby Monroe 💋💎 :
My grief is realizing how I wasted years and my life with the wrong ppl
2025-11-27 13:53:51
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Its_that_blonde_chick :
No person with kids or a partner will ever sympathize with a single person waking up alone on holidays/birthdays unless they're widowed or freshly divorced
2025-11-26 17:13:21
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Angie71676 :
This is so spot on. I'm single, in my 40s and my heart hurts for the young me that thought she would have this amazing life by now. All the hopes and dreams unrealized. It's hard not to dwell, but your absolutely right, there's still a chance for something good. Thanks for this post, I needed it! ❤️
2025-11-26 02:31:16
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Jax :
I don’t even want to be married, but I grieve that I will never have that proposal moment or wear a beautiful dress.
2025-11-26 03:38:48
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mindymarie222 :
You just made me cry because I thought maybe I was alone. I don’t think anyone can understand unless you have been through it.
2025-11-27 11:46:10
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ryann :
The grief I’ve experienced was realizing there are so few quality men worthy of being chosen.
2025-11-26 13:13:06
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Lesley Raye Taylor :
❤❤❤❤ I’d rather be alone than be trapped with the wrong one
2025-11-27 00:27:33
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PammySoup :
I didn't want to get married, but I wanted to feel loved and wanted. The version of me I expected is so very far from reality.
2025-11-26 02:28:23
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Johanna🌸 :
I am 44 and though my life is good in so many ways. I never imagined that at this point, I wouldn’t be a mom , wife or girlfriend. I try to find consolation by looking at the glass half full. But, damn - it’s hard some days.
2026-03-07 08:53:55
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SMA :
Thank you 😢 Grieving as my 45 birthday is approaching in few days…
2026-01-23 17:05:49
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Sarah DiNovo :
Going through that right now!!!
2025-11-28 18:56:52
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z-arina :
And people don’t realise it NEEDS to be grieved. Yes I am wonderful and have done some lovely things with my life. But this is not where I saw myself and it’s hard to reconcile
2026-01-22 11:55:29
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jennifergiacalone7 :
🙋 I'm pretty sure it's because I messed up my life
2025-11-30 04:16:48
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ashdelight03 :
I have 2 amazing boys but I grieve the man I thought would be standing beside me thru it all. my heart aches knowing I wont have anyone to sit in the rocking chair with and say we made it
2025-11-30 15:03:29
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Lolly Goldstein 🍭🍭 :
I’ve been single for lot of years, I’m turning 55, I’ve been struggling a bit about it.
2026-01-23 22:13:47
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MLCJeep :
Holidays are tough.
2025-11-26 02:33:51
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Sicola256 :
The only grief I feel is for the time I wasted on men in romantic relationships. I grieve the woman I could have been if I hadn’t been raised to be male centered.
2025-12-09 16:40:24
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Jupiter and Cosmo :
So true and holidays are always the hardest 🥺
2025-11-27 12:48:43
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Lilliehaus :
Amen!
2026-01-10 19:52:56
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nicoleeee_79 :
Im single, 46, and getting my tubes tied next month. I knew for a long time i prob wouldnt get to have a family, but i really had to grieve it before i was okay with asking to do the procedure. It took years.
2026-01-23 05:19:54
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Britt 🌱 :
I never wanted kids but I wish I’ve had a partner to create memories with over the years
2025-11-26 13:58:41
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🦇 :
My whole life has been about losing out on the dreams I was sold when I was small
2025-11-26 21:03:15
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𝐵𝓇𝒶𝓃𝒹𝓎 :
I’m 49. No…you can’t build something beautifully from here. No children, no family, you’re alone and you realize it. No one cares. No one checks on you. It’s just you. As you sit in a silent house. It just hits harder the holidays. And you wonder if it’s worth holding on for something you know in your heart will never come.
2025-11-27 08:03:10
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MSC :
Yes, I’m so sad that I will never have my dad walk me down the aisle… I’m 54, never married and no kids… I grieve that I’ll never have that beautiful day, growing old alone is tough…. But I try to stay positive and fortunate to have a career, but not this post is dead on!!!!!
2025-11-29 22:23:42
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Jenn :
This is so so so true. I think of this grief all the time and it just hurts.
2025-11-30 22:32:32
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