Tall :
Just focus on yourself. You’re in this cycle of “I need someone’s love and affection to fix me” but you’ll just end up hurting both parties. Start hobbies. Go to the gym, buy a cook book from Barnes nobles, watch YouTube documentaries, get good at cards, pick up a sport, start archery, pick up an axe and cut down a tree. And the one thing you never want to do and I need you to listen to this. Is to not be afraid to show your emotions, especially in minorities households crying or showing emotion is considered “girly”. as a man you can be hard, but you have to know when to have a gentle touch with a women, to pick up on social cues, when she’s overstimulated in public just a simple “you okay? Do you wanna head outside and get some air?” Sometimes you do have to bite the bullet like giving your coat to your lady, sure you’re cold now but you get to see the joy and relief on her face as she’s wrapped in your coat, sometimes she wants to run in the rain humor her and join her. You’re young only once. If you have trouble starting conversations with women take a second and look, maybe there’s a design on her jacket or cute earrings, or a piercing, or even something as simple as a cartoon character on a shirt tell her you love whatever you’ve decided to compliment her on now obviously she’s not gonna be head over heels right then she might start a conversation about where she got it, she might just say thanks, she might just stare at you like you curb stomped a child in front of her. Point is the worse that can happen is you get a dirty look or she says she has a partner.
2025-11-25 09:36:00