@missclairebenjamin: How to work with a chaotic manager and get your needs met… There can be many reasons why a manager can be chaotic. For example they might be over worked, stressed, struggle with organisation or time management. Whilst you can hold compassion for this, it doesn’t take away the impact this has on you. When a manager shows up like this the challenge for you is how you get your needs met. As demonstrated in this video I would recommend choosing the right moment (i.e. not at the peak of their stress) and speaking to them about how you can best work more effectively. Focusing this conversation around your different working styles provides a way to raise this conversation without triggering defensiveness. 💬 Have you ever been on either side of this situation? What would you add to help improve the working relationship? 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is generalised and will not fit every situation. Therefore, please use your own judgement when using this advice and adapt it to suit your situation. ➕ Follow Claire Benjamin for more strategies on navigating tricky work dynamics #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #emotionalintelligence #corporatelife #communicationskills #assertivecommunication #managertips #difficultconversations

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spikeandtonyrip
:(((( :
this kind of manager is why i'm looking for a new job
2025-11-25 23:01:46
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no39001
no :
Managers don’t accept feedback
2025-11-26 02:19:52
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alicexxxwilliams
alicexxxwilliams :
Managing your manager ?! Often managers end up in this position because they are getting it from above and below. It’s not self absorbed.
2025-11-26 10:41:30
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chloemenace
Chloe Menace :
I think this is a bit harsh saying the manager is disorganised, it seems like she is just overwhelmed which should be addressed by her manager
2025-12-03 13:02:38
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staceynewlan86
Stacey Newlan :
Totally me as the manager sadly. Getting work from above, from the side and below, not sure which way to turn. I hate being a manager for this reason.
2025-11-27 22:13:39
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kimsbookcorner
Kim Fradley :
I brought up that our manager doesn’t do any of the things he says he will do, so he got annoyed and cancelled everyone’s one to ones and and hasn’t rescheduled anyone’s since. This was in December.
2026-01-22 12:04:32
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vikmcdonald
Loves :
this is why I work for myself. managing corporate people dynamics is draining!
2025-12-04 13:17:36
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katewaterfallhill
Leadership Coach - Kate :
Typical of Linda to call just at the wrong time.
2025-12-17 08:53:13
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misslizyy7
misslizyy :
They r sooo annoying! And makes the job 10times draining
2025-12-04 20:30:31
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pyrooz2
PyroOZ2 :
aahhh the incompetent manager. My favorite. 😆
2025-12-04 12:56:03
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carm3n.sandiego
Carmen Sandiego :
Ok this video didn’t finish though…didn’t tell me what to say to get them in my side, only told me what to say to annoy them and get fired 🙃
2025-11-26 04:01:40
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lauracampbell22
Laura Campbell :
Middle management, i am a neurodiverse chaotic manager 😳
2025-12-03 18:17:26
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maamaattatti
Mama_tati :
I am trying to teach my manager of the importance of our one to ones. and technically I should be leading them. he keeps trying to change the direction of the discussion when a plan is already in place.
2025-11-25 22:49:33
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lisabobisayo
LisaBoBisaYo :
I politely but firmly requested we focus on my question and the document I was displaying for my boss’s input. (They were answering chats and talking out loud about another team member’s issue while in my 1:1 meeting.)
2025-11-25 20:13:34
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unk1972
UNK :
Try sending your agenda items ahead of time so that your leader can come prepared too. My leader has thanked me for it 😉
2025-11-26 06:28:06
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just_the.user
just_the.user :
This is literally my manager😅 millions of notebooks with notes and things to do and never going back to them🤣🤣🤣
2025-11-26 06:56:35
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missclairebenjamin
Claire | Work people tips :
Have you ever been on either side of this situation? What would you add to help improve the working relationship/ situation? 👀
2025-11-25 19:07:07
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snuffbutt
snuffbutt :
I left a job about 3 months ago for this reason and am now so much happier
2025-11-26 07:07:21
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itslizzycook
itslizzycook :
At the top of our 1:1 I asked if we could focus on things we need to communicate about in order for our check ins to be quick and effective. We don’t always need to use the full 30 minutes so if he focuses on me & my work at the scheduled time, we can be as efficient as possible!
2025-11-25 21:13:44
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lifewithmsmim
Life with Ms Mim 😸😸 :
it's giving flashbacks
2025-12-01 15:32:28
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ellyssilly
ellyssilly :
Well, this isn’t a good example to compare because the boss is a lot calmer in the second scenario so it’s not a fair comparison. The boss should be just as chaotic and the second scene.
2026-01-10 15:35:31
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dirtysquib
DirtySquib :
Urgh I’m that manager and it does my head in. I used to be a manager - like that was my job - so not doing 1:1s etc was insane as that was literally my job. Now my job is 99%task, so I have zero time for my team. They are needy and don’t get better as I don’t have time to support them. Drives me mad
2026-01-20 19:02:50
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j._aaa
j._aaa :
I don’t have a 1:1 meeting since 2021 🤣
2025-11-26 06:21:32
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leafy_addiction
leafy_addiction :
this is deffo my manager😔
2025-11-28 23:16:03
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donna87981
donna2020 :
So accurate 😇
2025-11-26 08:52:18
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