1. Does it require hierarchy to survive?
2. Does it require suppression of the self?
3. Does it depend on fear, control or punishment?
4. Does it colapse polarity into hierarchy?
2025-11-26 00:51:07
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Molly Mackenzie :
Coherence in a distorted structure is a concept I’ve struggled for YEARS to articulate. I feel like I found you and now the framework of what I already understood has words and legs and shape and it keeps making me weep with relief
2025-11-26 02:28:58
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🥜peanutbutterkelleytime🥜 :
I see a lot of folks who bypass as emotionally regulated but they’re actually disassociated
2025-11-25 21:54:21
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Eliza Day :
Oh Kristen you are my new favorite teacher
2025-11-26 16:48:13
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MelissaMcClenaghan :
Fascinating hearing all these topics you discuss “out loud” and in words. It feels like a ball of yarn being untangled 🧶 ✨🙏🏻
2025-11-25 22:00:53
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how to not collapse polarity into hierarchy?
2025-11-26 01:45:18
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XaniaYourVeganHomegirl :
Took me a minute to understand this about hyper religious people. I realized that just because they spoke clearly and with conviction it didn’t make what they were saying true.
2025-11-26 06:53:52
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Penny :
wait wait wait... I thought coherence=truth.. I need to read your book.
2025-11-26 04:45:02
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Thirdborn :
What if you’re the one who’s distorted and that’s what’s making you tense up? I think everyone thinks they’re a bit more in tuned than they are and actually they might be the problem..
2025-11-25 22:10:02
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neh :
I have a question about point number 1. Isn't hierarchy natural? So some people are tall, hence better at reaching things from high cabinets, they are better at that task, in that moment, but entirely better or simpliciter. How would you reconcile that with tour first point.
2025-11-26 19:43:51
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meinasheville :
Are you saying that you can’t be balanced if you see certain things as better or worse? Maybe I’m missing something here.
2025-11-26 18:35:15
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kmackfrequencymatters :
What do you mean not truth? Wouldn’t truth be coherent?
2025-11-25 22:44:47
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Cat2025 :
I have been having a real issue with people who speak as though they are “healed” or “spiritual”, but it’s not ringing true for me. I feel like the language of manipulation changed, but it still feels manipulative.
2025-12-28 05:27:04
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RedAZ 💙 :
Great message! I'm dining alone this year. Well me and my pups 🐶 ❤
2025-11-25 23:00:46
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Era | Somatic Coach :
Wowwww I am so grateful to have found your work Kristen. You put to words what I have felt but didn’t yet have the language for 💕
2025-11-26 17:38:20
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schroederess :
Wonderful explanation!
2025-11-25 21:10:18
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hirazah_rinu_yahbe :
I had to listen to this several times and I love that for me. This is good!!
2026-01-20 04:09:09
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Vylma v :
#1 alone is a literal life changer! Oh my Goddess!
2025-11-26 19:48:42
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Nolwazi Lembede Gumbi :
This is such important information. The more I listen to you, the less confused I am.
2025-12-25 11:35:24
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katya.redpath :
Btw that sweater is very complementary and seems to suit you very well 😊
2025-11-26 18:41:37
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Stacey Popiel🪬🧿 :
This is even better and more complete than the thing I keep trying to describe for my own intentions: I’m doing everything I can to make my inside and outside match as closely as possible. This is better. Thank you as always.
2025-11-26 19:51:09
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cat :
Thank you for this explanation. I have also noticed that this distortion feels similar to contradiction. What do you think? I think contradiction also contains polarity, which you mentioned, so is the distortion collapse into contradiction? Or am I way off or mixing things up?
2025-11-25 21:45:57
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MINI Driver :
💖💖💖 this is incredibly helpful!
2025-11-25 21:07:42
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