It’s so hard especially finding one who is emotionally available, over their ex, and monogamous
2025-11-27 02:44:14
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Carinne 🌈 :
Been single for two years, zero luck on the apps so far. The feeling of scarcity is so real
2025-11-26 20:39:17
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Ness🐀 :
Ugh I struggle with this so bad, I was emotionally/sexually unfulfilled in my previous relationship but didn’t leave right away because I felt like I’d never find partnership again😭
2025-11-26 17:01:50
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annika🧘♀️ :
it‘s crazy how you‘re describing everything i experienced😭 i always thought i was so desperate but now realising it was that scarcity mindset.
2025-11-25 23:07:30
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TWKEEK :
SO well said.
2025-11-26 01:45:37
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Swampy :
Omg me too
2025-11-25 22:39:19
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Stefani :
I stayed with my ex way too long because of scarcity mindset. A year single now and I do ache to find love but I’m willing to wait until I meet the right person.
2025-12-27 23:38:26
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❌Shae ❌ Group 7️⃣ :
I live in a community where there appears to be a lot of options, but everyone “knows” everyone. I’m also not finding connection or attracted to any of the options where I’m at. Even though partnership is pushed on everyone because it is a social expectation, I’m finding I don’t prioritize this, I prefer one or two good friends.
2025-12-01 18:25:22
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Mali :
all I've learned it's so much easier to just be alone then choose someone far too quickly
2025-11-27 13:18:59
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alli🌞 :
Same I’m so scared I’m going to end up settling
2025-11-26 21:45:51
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🖤 Lyd 🖤 :
So real 🥀 had a friend tell me she had feelings for me recently just to pull back after a week. Idk anymore bro I want a real sweet relationship and I will give it my all but nothing seems to work out for me and I’ve been lookingggggg
2025-11-26 06:12:02
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syd_car :
Wow this is so real 🙌🏼 I feel you
2025-12-22 14:10:28
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lyn ~☆ :
i've come to accept that im okay with being alone for the rest of my life due to my last rls (before i realized im a lesbian). tho its still annoying that just bc im a lesbian i shouldnt hold a high standard like i always did back when i dated men. in fact, my standards are getting higher than ever. irdgaf what anyone else says settling less drove me insane i am not gonna compromise for what i could provide for myself & my potential partner
2025-12-28 10:56:06
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Marina Francis :
I 100% feel this, going through a breakup now and I’m constantly questioning whether it was the right choice because she was so perfect in so many ways and compatible with me, but there were toxic behaviors that made it almost impossible to stay
2025-11-27 23:01:22
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liquidhon3y :
i had to leave a city for a small town at the beginning of the year, it has been so draining trying to maintain any kind of community let alone dating. I hate feeling like I am bouncing between too picky and not actually conecting with people becuase there are so few options.
2025-11-26 03:31:54
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femmebitez :
It’s like you’re reading my thoughts omg
2025-12-03 18:05:11
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sierram :
thissss !!! couldn’t agree more !
2025-11-27 03:41:14
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Grace :
My girlfriend is the only other lesbian I know. I’ve tried multiple times to find lesbian friends, but it’s almost impossible in a small city.🥲
2025-11-28 06:16:33
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starlight and sea :
nah ur so real the community feels so small especially geographically 🫤
2025-11-28 07:56:38
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Rogue rach! ! :
You popped up on my FYP today and glad you did. I don’t think about my lesbian experience much anymore or what drove some of my past relationships. Your videos have given me a lot to think about. Thanks!
2025-11-30 16:21:55
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jocelvn :
ty for addressing how real it is that it IS GENUINELY SCARCE OUT HERE SOMETIMES 😭😭
2025-11-27 00:23:03
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Abigail Blythe-Anime VA🐞 :
Being a newly single 27 yr old lesbian has been an experience
2025-12-21 21:06:09
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AniBani ~ คีอานิ :
someone who assumed ace in this patriarchy society but now is thinking perhaps I could be attracted to women.
What can I do to get comfortable putting myself out there?
2025-11-26 22:17:41
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