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hi vi :
thank you! resonate a lot “sometimes we cant see ourselves clearly because we never had anyone mirror anything back to us”
2025-11-26 21:44:40
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CosmicVevlet :
I feel called out. I’ve had numerous friendships like this and couldn’t put the words on it
2025-11-27 00:16:28
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Lauren :
Girl, are you me? I cannot believe how much I relate to this
2025-11-27 02:05:10
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assrat :
ive had like 4 of these codependent relationships in my life and genuinely, i hope to never have it again
2025-11-27 06:25:46
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Bestie on a Budget :
Mistaking emotional intensity for emotional depth —— ooooooh that rings so true
2025-11-28 04:23:51
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SonomaPondLady :
You just described me and my platonic friendships. Always one intense, chaotic "best friend" who leans on me and uses me until I collapse.
2025-12-09 06:29:49
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Leah :
I have never resonated with something so truly. Now that I'm out on the other side of the illusion, I am grappling with the existential realization that comes with seeing that this loneliness I have been so familiar with all my childhood, I must become good good friends with
2025-11-27 03:59:42
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Astrid 🏳️⚧️ :
So so relatable, especially the part where you see the other person as what you have been searching for only to realize the magic about them…. Was you all along. 🩷
2025-11-28 20:00:07
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Arcanarius :
being the sun chasing the moonlight not knowing its reflecting from you
2025-12-28 15:38:37
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daisyydark :
you put into words what so many went through, thank u Helena 💖
2025-12-02 08:24:26
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thecoyotekidd :
Ugh it took me nearly 40 years to break free from this. I’m so sad for all the years I gave up to others.
2025-11-26 21:32:33
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Esther Godfrey :
Omg the hollow feeling I was told only God could fill 😭
2025-11-27 12:25:40
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violetconcreteflower :
How do you think the person on the other side can change for your friendship to have been different? I’ve been in a similar dynamic but I’m the other person and she’s the one that would relate to this video. We are stuck and struggling
2025-11-29 00:01:01
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♣️ :
you just peeled me and read me 😭
2026-01-05 06:44:36
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Klée :
Every word! Hollow and needing that intensity to hold you over just long enough to push through the loneliness until the next time.
2025-11-26 22:48:25
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alyssamaryweaver :
girl i’m starting to think we lived the same damn life
2025-11-28 16:38:25
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Jessi :
OMG I can’t believe you just articulated that experience!
2025-11-27 03:29:02
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Stephanie Disbrow :
You have a beautiful way with words. Thank you for speaking the way you do. I relate deeply.
2025-11-27 03:02:49
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mayacreatesallthetime :
“Take my light”, wow. Yes, been there a lot 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2025-11-26 21:16:08
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camillegoode926 :
Yes, I had a best friend like this. It was to the point that I was one person with her (the person I was with my mom) and a “normal” person with others
2025-11-27 01:38:24
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Autumn :
The emphasis you put on the word "hollow" let me know we are definitely experiencing the same thing.
2025-11-27 00:01:41
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🌹foodfor_thot💭 :
wow, this resonated so deeply. from the lonely child who craved love and connection to getting excited about a friendship that was only ever surface level trauma bonding 🥲 and the crash out! it may have been necessary to our growth, because you are clearly a very wise because of it. I hope you're doing well 💕 because this didn't end well for me. definitely glad it's over though.
2025-11-28 14:01:10
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Amy L :
I don’t understand enmeshment yet
2025-11-27 03:41:27
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latia| MUA :
omg!!!! I am currently going through this and I blame myself that I didn't see it sooner, but lesson learned. I blinded myself to believe something that wasn't real.
2025-11-28 13:36:53
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Stefsopla :
Hi are you me?
2025-11-28 19:02:27
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Adriana Ambrosia :
Man I feel like all your videos are about me! It’s nice to know I’m not the only one out there ❤ thank you
2025-11-27 02:18:11
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lauracolors78 :
oh did we have the same best friend 😑😭mine just ended after 20 yrs
2025-11-27 10:18:55
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The Nancy Pattern :
It wasn't their light I was chasing, but the way I glowed whenever they were near. I get you 🥹
2025-12-28 01:06:57
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MmmmmHer :
Girl please dm me we need to have a chat every time I watch one of your videos we become more and more of the same person
2025-11-26 21:08:31
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PR :
Turn that lead into gold, baby! This is how you do it. Great honesty and it’s not forced. Just who you are now. It’s all going to pay off. And is paying off. You are sharing your journey in a way that can enormously help others. And is helping others.
2025-11-27 15:28:14
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lolo :
It feels like a bottomless pit sometimes.
2025-11-27 02:54:27
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sweetbloodoftheearth :
I was looking for that intensity and ended up being in places I didn’t belong.
2025-12-27 09:25:51
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leyla :
sssht everyone! my show is on
2025-12-01 00:17:26
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Kat :
you are describing my life so exactly it's very painful but thank you so much
2025-12-09 15:37:05
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sacrificial.lamborghini :
‼️“I’M USED TO BEING FED OFF OF” ‼️
2025-11-30 16:41:00
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Sheena :
Absolutely relate. That intensity makes you feel like you matter and in reality your attention made them magical because you were safe to exist in it. When that friendship ends you realize how ordinary and insignificant they were.
2025-11-29 09:52:52
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MmmmmHer :
Stop you’re scaring me 😩
2025-11-26 21:08:58
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StarlingSwallow :
Helena, you are truly gifted in sharing, poetic, even. 🦋 Your words paint these painful, validating pictures in my mind and for many of us. Thank you!
2025-11-28 18:46:49
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kirkachu13 :
you make me feel like people out there would actually get me and be healthy friends, thank you for hope you are amazing and voicing things I could never find words for, thank you for you 😁
2025-11-27 19:30:07
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rebeccaelesia :
damn
2025-11-26 21:14:17
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Depresso :
i gave her so much, as soon as i felt bad and wasn't resourceful, she abandoned me
2025-12-30 19:57:41
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after.opalhours :
This was my last relationship completely. It used to be my bestie until something broke and it was now or never. She actually choose now and we worked on repairing our relationship. It took a lot of work but I think we're on solid ground but it wasn't easy.
2026-01-02 22:19:18
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Katherine Magnoli :
I completely understand what you're saying
2025-12-04 22:35:34
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Lola Jade :
Beautifully spoken and communicated
2025-11-27 05:52:20
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Darlene :
Yupppp
2025-11-27 07:27:17
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Adriana :
No wonder I was attracted to these types
2025-12-01 18:32:08
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M :
Thank you for giving a voice to something I’ve struggled with! 💖
2025-11-27 05:23:23
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StarlingSwallow :
Every video. You are helping me u lock DEEP realizations! 💕🦋😭
2025-11-27 12:34:49
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aro_nica :
I’m 44 and I understand what you are saying. I wish I found this out about myself in my 20’s.
2025-11-29 23:28:47
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PetiteManse :
Crystal clear. Thank you
2025-11-27 00:50:47
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