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fart knocker :
i want to spoil every person when i host an event but the lack of reciprocation is never matched and it really does feel like i threw my own humilation ritual
2025-11-27 21:30:21
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pewpewgrrrl :
I dont understand ppl going empty handed. like who raised you?
2025-11-28 06:17:10
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ksttttttttttt :
People want a village but don’t wanna be a villager!
2025-11-28 15:24:43
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PhastEddie :
It hits diffferent when u realize thst gma really didn’t want to cook or bake for all of that but did so in order to get ppl to visit.
2025-11-27 22:16:43
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liddy :
I think it goes really hand in hand with the death of community. People just don’t show up for each other like they used to, everyone is so divided now :(
2025-11-27 04:35:55
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For.the.love.of.boardgames :
My work friend hosted a Friendsgiving with 30ppl, he was going to cook everything & I said “absolutely not” & started a what dish is everyone bringing e-mail (so many ppl said TBD) so I went around reminding people that it was 30ppl they had to bring something substantial and that if it was too much work for the host he would never do it again. Everyone stepped up with so much food, extra tables and chairs, wine etc. and we all helped clean up & pack up at the end of the night. The host said he is definitely doing it again. It can work out, but I think people need to be reminded of expectations and consequences (such as not hosting anymore) b/c this isn’t your mama’s house, we all need to step up if we want to befits from community
2025-11-27 20:54:31
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Aubrey Keane :
Even if it’s not a potluck you message the host and ask if they need anything and show up with AT MINIMUM a bottle of something or dessert or an appetizer
2025-11-28 08:50:54
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Sassa Ésmith 💌 :
For me, it’s how late people feel that they can show up. It’s my home, not a club- try to be here at least the hour it starts.
2025-12-03 16:03:35
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Ren :
I hosted four large parties. Things in my home were broken, people I explicitly said I didn’t want to come were brought, people overstayed their welcome, or my place was trashed. Never. Ever. Again.
2025-11-27 22:04:22
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chae :
everyone wants benefits without doing the work
2025-11-28 03:47:07
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Lindsay :
I could never show up to someone's house empty-handed. One year they insisted I bring nothing so it showed up with flowers at the very least, I think it's an etiquette thing that people have forgotten.
2025-11-28 16:56:43
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ashton ✨ :
When grandma dies, the get-togethers in the family seem to as well ☹️
2025-11-27 21:03:33
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Tay :
It’s so expensive to host too. & the work of cleaning before & after & setting up & planning special things for the kids so they don’t destroy your house & people can have fun. 🤦🏻♀️
2025-11-28 06:34:35
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6677dun :
It’s people canceling last minute. Recently went to a party where they planned on about 40 ppl. 15 showed. Felt so bad for the hosts.
2025-11-30 11:08:09
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Art Vandalay :
I went to a friend’s Christmas party and people looked at me funny because I brought wine. They serious said “oh she said not to bring anything” I said “this is for the host??”
2025-11-29 13:02:42
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Pluto 🍉 :
I had 40 people RSVP yes, some confirmed the day of. Only 8 people showed. That was the last straw and now I live across the country!
2025-11-28 17:06:12
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dr pepper fan :
i used to throw a halloween party for my friends and every time i would ask them to bring a dish or just a bag of candy and no one ever did
2025-11-28 00:52:08
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Paige :
We are experiencing the death of community!!
2025-12-01 06:03:46
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Wilma :
It makes me so upset as the planner cause I’d die for invites anywhere I can’t imagine being invited to things and saying no 😭😭
2025-12-31 00:07:02
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user7231282527242 :
Same thing with Friendsgiving. I stopped when I invited 8 people 15 showed up and we only had 4 dishes I didn’t make.
2025-11-27 14:24:52
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Laz :
I just threw a Christmas Eve eve party and over 10ppl were no shows. My wife and I are having the same discussion about whether it’s worth it.
2025-12-27 17:21:10
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mishu_isle :
I had a guest come with wine and left with the wine they brought. Immediately no
2025-11-27 20:02:33
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Angel :
I don’t host big parties anymore, I invite the two friends I know will show up and have “dinner” parties.
2025-11-28 03:28:24
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Bookishlady :
You have to cultivate a group of friends that DOES know how to act. It’s hard. But you know a good one when you find one. Deepen those relationships.
2025-12-28 21:52:58
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Molly Mercury :
Hosting is EXHAUSTING
2025-11-30 23:37:07
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