@totallynotlys:

Fins :

I wasted 19 years please Google..."Signs of breadcrumbing from an avoidant partner"

LindslayRae :

They’re just keeping you from someone who will do all these things. LEAVE and find true happiness

Summer :

maiika :

His friends recieve more effort 😭

Joy :

Are we all dating the same man?

Rose ❤️🥀 :

Then has the audacity to wonder why you’re upset or angry with them 😭

yourmom__89 :

Just dumped my man bc of this. BYE✌🏼

Anca Mia :

the timing is crazy...

Liz<3 :

And then expects me to not be upset all the time. It’s fucking exhausting

L :

Anybody who says the things but makes no effort is a liar and has no true intentions

Whitney Robinah :

He kept over promising and doing nothing in the end I decided to just leave him alone haven’t heard from him since

Liv 🌸 :

Just left my man of almost 6 years bc of this.. I’m emotionally drained but still being told he did so much for the relationship when he didn’t do half of what I willingly did for him , for me. It’s okay, I’ll do it for myself now and heal

Mama Michaela ✨ :

Mentally exhausting. I’m checked out 🥺

Nichole ✌🏻 :

And then he ended up leaving because the pressure to be better was too much for him. It was easier to stay the same 😞

vitaminchi :

Just think "would he treat his ideal girl this way?" No, he would try to impress her.

kels_cook :

Actions will always speak louder than words.

El KayT :

That is neglect & a form of abuse. You deserve better.

Savannah 💓 :

Glad I’m out of it

milaa_septialv :

Bagaimana rasanya bersama seorang pria yang mengatakan dia mencintaimu, menginginkanmu dalam hidupnya & bermaksud untukmu tetapi tidak melakukan upaya nyata untuk menunjukkannya? Tidak ada kencan, tidak ada rencana, tidak ada hadiah, tidak ada tindakan nyata untuk memperbaiki atau melakukan sesuatu atau lebih baik hanya kata-kata kosong, janji-janji hampa, dan permintaan maaf tanpa perubahan perilaku?

Cara G. :

Joke’s on him: there’s a long waiting list of people waiting for me to leave him

Jehe2395 :

Kt :

Is anyone else not looking forward to Christmas because they know they aren't getting shit?

em <3 :

him going to work should be enough. me complaining turns into “he’s never enough.”

. :

he just "planned" a date today. and the whole day he was asking me what I wanted to do and what not. and didnt pick me up. no flowers. and when I met him at his house he was dressed so nice and I was in jeans and a tshirt (he said we were going to the mall) and when I was there he was talking about how this would be our anniversary date (our 1st year was Nov 3 but he said he wanted to celebrate in December... I said okay but honestly I was crushed). anyways I had such a horrible date and I have no one to talk to bout it so imma just leave this here🙃

Diane Nguyen :

Jokes on me for how long I stayed.