Taylor Love
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ashmclnnn :
Hear me out - avoidants actually help non avoidants to become more secure within themselves.
2025-11-30 14:34:05
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𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐞 :
How about he heals himself, so I don’t have to live in fear—accepting loneliness and neglect while being the only one keeping the whole relationship alive? How about we stop gaslighting ourselves into thinking we’re pathologically anxious, when the real reason for our anxiety is that we’re giving ungrateful, selfish people the space they only need to seek distractions that will disrespect us and soothe themselves from the fact that we’re trying to build a life they know they don’t deserve? How about they stop stepping into commitments they never meant to honor and find someone like them, so they can finally feel the fear they use as an excuse to live only off its benefits? I wish all avoidants someone like them, so they could truly understand what being abandoned by those they actually love feels like. Stop seeing them as poor souls afraid of intimacy—they’re just martyrs of their own comfort. Love is a choice, not an excuse.
2025-11-29 22:26:08
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𝓟𝓪𝔀𝓮𝓮𝓷𝓪🪽 :
I need a real man. I don't care if he's afraid of commitment. I don't care if he needs time. I don't care if he still has this or that to build. A strong man is strong, period.
2025-11-29 09:13:51
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lau_ramza :
I have experienced this and he is very very consistent with this pattern, and if i keep calm while he is recalibrating, he naturally comes back to me and i (anxious one) have started to enjoy it, to wait in calm while he comes back
2025-11-30 08:22:36
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Jules 🌺 :
Ladies, just focus on yourself. Let him do whatever he wants. He needs control of himself.
2025-11-29 08:04:43
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Marjorie💎🌹 :
I’m starting to realize the space in between is actually nice. I get to have uninterrupted me time that maybe one day when I’m in a relationship I won’t have. He’ll be back in a couple of days.
2025-12-02 06:30:28
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mtink420 :
the best way to be with an avoidant is to run the other way that is the most simplest easiest way to be with an avoidant
2025-11-30 08:15:41
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empty space :
An avoidant is spirit of devil,thanks, big no😌
2025-11-29 09:53:29
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Mary 🎀 :
My anxious attachement stops the moment when im not interested anymore 🥀
2025-11-29 15:46:07
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Kara Beth :
Yes! If more women would take the “distance” or the “space” that the man PROVIDES as a gift and opportunity to pour into their own lives and growth and relationship with self, there would be a lot more happy women! ❤️🙌🏻💃🏻
2025-11-30 23:39:51
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Moon :
I know rage bait when I see one
2025-12-01 13:12:58
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lex.thetraumanurse :
100% agreed. Avoidants help anxious attachers heal into secure attachers, who can then help avoidants heal 🖤
2025-12-05 01:19:08
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M :
but who wants to live like that ? 😅😅
2025-12-04 05:16:26
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Alanna Cashman :
Why can’t they do the work and communicate ‘I need space it’s safe I’ll be back’ to get that going?
2025-12-01 05:39:42
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Selene :
😭😭😭😭😂😂😂 they can go to the moon and stay alone I also suffered in life I want love
2025-11-30 17:38:27
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Lauren :
Anxious attachments also have abandonment wounds
2025-12-01 16:36:31
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Spiritual.KeeKs :
This is so embarrassing to even watch
2025-12-13 05:45:23
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Staci Vandewart :
Sounds exhausting
2025-12-17 03:48:26
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Patoo😊 :
Do you know if woman is pulling away means we have lost our interest in you.
2025-11-30 01:56:20
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obsessed with this :
Such a man needs to have the decency to communicate instead of gaslight imo
2025-12-01 15:36:27
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Anami62 :
nope, gave him all the space he needed, never chased, we were compatible on every level, minimal conflict. i was consistent and secure, he still blindsided me with a discard after several long weekends together. its so sad. 😢
2025-11-29 19:36:12
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nkechi uwalaka :
But how come they are steady at the beginning of the relationship? They act normally and gradually they begin to reveal these attitudes
2025-11-29 14:44:30
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paulabarnes270 :
Im an avoidant woman. The guilt i feel because i cannot follow through with the love i want to feel is exhausting. We can be so good in a relationship with someone who is vulnerable and then bam💥some small flag shuts me off and i pull away.
2025-12-01 19:55:30
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Rosie :
Right! But pulling away is FINE until becomes weeks and months! That’s not healthy! I can give him the space he needs but 1) tell me that and reassure me you will return 2) he can’t expect me to stay always even after a small fight. He hasn’t talked to me in almost two months! C’mon! This can be ok!! And I promise you I healed! I became the better version of me and still..nope! He runs away!!
2025-11-29 18:15:35
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