@conflictish: Once someone abandons the argument and starts attacking you, the conversation is no longer about resolution. It’s about their regulation. And that’s not your job. 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 #conflictresolution #conflictmanagement #interpersonalskills #adhominem #communicationskills

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roxxy1013_
Roxxy :
what do you do when someone is always make attempts to make you look unworthy or smart enough for your job position as there manager.
2025-12-28 15:56:34
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3funzzz
3121🔥 :
1. State what you’re Not here for, 2. Clarify what you Are here for 3. Lay down the rules…if you’re willing then I’m willing (but if not I’m Done)! Basically a cheap shot. They can’t go toe to toe so they seek to get you off your game. When you go low too or get pulled in they win because they seek to take the focus off them & accuse you with ‘proof’ of your emotional behavior.👏👏👏👏
2025-12-28 14:13:13
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rjmendres
Ronne :
I like that, Respond strategically not emotionally. Thanks
2025-12-01 00:21:23
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sandraprattwelch
Sandra Welch :
Welp! I failed that test. Once the conversation started out with lies, I was done talking.
2025-12-09 04:08:09
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jelksveteranservices
Jelks Veteran Services :
"It's data" was my favorite part ☺️
2025-12-13 18:13:30
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love.winzz8
Love Winzz :
👏👏👏👏👏👏Spiritual Intelligence is everything🙏🏻 Their emotional irregulation and insecurity . Refuse to be triggered by their insecurity. 👏👏👏👏👏
2025-12-02 00:38:26
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iamlisanobles
I am Lisa Nobles :
Something they reach for when they’ve run out of substance! #powerful
2026-01-04 03:09:17
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omonibholla
Omonibholla🇺🇸🇳🇬 :
Master the art of observation and act accordingly with immediate alacrity strategically 🥰
2025-12-26 15:46:33
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tauruslove312518
Designed different❌😘 :
I like this perspective and I will apply this from now on
2025-12-01 17:08:18
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jm_paintwagon
jm_paintwagon :
yes. because once you've lost their respect, you're unlikely to regain it. it doesn't matter if you quit school in 6th grade then spent years of your adulthood making up for bad choices. They'll only see the bad choices
2025-12-01 22:31:53
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pattyache
Ernestine :
Thank you for sharing that message. I’ve been trying to find reasons for a behavior of someone who said something similar to me.
2026-01-14 12:37:15
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pamela.jones030gmail.com
Pam Reflections & Connections :
I like that perspective.
2025-11-30 22:48:15
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brownsugarandlemon
Brown Sugar and Lemon Tees :
at that point it's time to reevaluate the relationship and possible end it
2025-12-02 14:51:33
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frederickzach
Frederick Zach :
Hampton, repping.
2025-12-01 22:51:06
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sarahshauan
Sarah Shauan :
Thank you for pulling back the curtain!
2025-12-02 21:24:25
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sweetserenity1130
SweetSerenity1130🌹🩷🌹 :
Well, I just went through this today.
2026-01-20 04:14:20
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jcmanning412
Julia :
Great wisdom bestowed here!! Thank you!!
2026-01-08 04:11:15
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romagroves
Roma Groves - Waters :
There is a message in someone messiness
2026-01-04 05:11:53
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jayboo271
jayboo271 :
I know what you mean
2026-01-29 03:12:30
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modjorobbie
ModjoRoby🌴 :
Boy o boy my sis always constantly pulling me in her emotional reaction. I do exactly what you said here in the video. It works for me, but nothing changes on her side. Lol
2025-12-26 21:42:51
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cindyann.47
Cindy Lou :
What I've noticed from most people if I ask a question they hear an accusation. so then I get an explanation rather than an answer to the question. It's very frustrating
2025-12-06 20:11:31
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better.by.the.bay
better.by.the.bay :
Learning this! After years of patterns I’m finally like YES! It’s clicking. Responding > Reacting
2025-12-13 01:41:41
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tiktokbabe71
Happy S :
exactly what Ive thought.
2025-12-01 20:03:02
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constancekopriva
Constance Kopriva :
Profound and informative. Thank you for sharing this. It will help me to know myself as well.💙
2025-11-30 22:30:53
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jp.garcan
JP GarCan / Dllo. Habilidades :
Great insight. Thanks!
2025-12-01 00:46:02
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