@chris_hatfield: Difference between your intuition and anxious attachment #intuition #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #insecure #anxiousattachmentstyle
I’ve been watching you for a few weeks now- i really struggle with my anxious attachment. I have an amazing girlfriend who i’ve been with for just over a year now. She understands that i have this and that i overthink a lot. I knew for a while i was feeling things that i might not have needed to feel- i only realised that i have “anxious attachment” when i saw a video on it and realised i have and do everything it says. It’s really hard and i hate it. I know that deep down can annoy and upset my girlfriend which i hate so much. I know she’s the one for me and we are very strong- i just dont want my anxious attachment to affect me and her. She’s loyal and trust me- she often feels like i dont trust her with things when it’s my anxious attachment 99% of the time. Your videos help me so much and make me realise that i can get over this. Thank you
2025-12-01 18:53:47
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blowthetoilet :
Me personally I feel like there’s a pattern but at the same time I don’t know if it’s just me overthinking it in this pattern not really being anything serious. I am very bad when it comes to overthinking. I physically cannot stop myself. I don’t know how to stop.
2025-12-09 06:09:08
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Artifcial Insanity :
lots and lots of moments after years and years 💥 💥 💥 💥
2025-12-01 20:55:57
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eliza_xixixou :
The timing is immaculate. It helped me relax so much! Thank you 😇
2025-12-03 10:17:57
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pinkkillerpigeon :
EXACTLY what I needed to hear in this very moment. 🙏
2025-12-01 22:13:46
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MC :
I needed to hear this.
2025-12-01 20:05:49
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RhysTHE8east :
Bro 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
2025-12-01 20:00:42
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Ubeath_rentals :
Thank you , everything all of a sudden makes sense to me now ❤️
2025-12-04 12:14:22
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Polly Popperz :
WHAT IF ITS BOTH
2025-12-02 00:35:32
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wendy :
ok 👌👌👌👌👍👍
2025-12-01 22:04:03
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Dan :
Unfortunately I found out I have anxious attachment too late, I really liked this person but would get in my head that I’d upset them when they wouldn’t respond. It ended up with them losing interest and eventually stopping all communication. Hopefully I can work on it and find someone as good as they where
2025-12-01 22:15:24
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keramous :
💔💔💔
2025-12-24 11:09:42
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🕷️ :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-01-30 03:48:02
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CassieIsUnbothered :
thank you for this bc I've struggled all day with this. It's my intuition and im trying to gaslight myself to believe it's not.
2025-12-02 21:55:06
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Curls :
This is a great way to tell the difference. I hope this will help me in the future.
2025-12-01 23:32:26
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Jessie Riggins :
My bf will come home from a bad day of work and be in a grumpy mood. He’s never hateful towards me at all during this but he’s usually quiet and more secluded than normal and my stupid brain immediately thinks the worst and that it’s me and something I did because his mood is different. It’s a struggle but it’s something I’ve voiced to him and that I work on daily to try and control. He’s super supportive 💗
2025-12-01 20:46:56
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William anzellll :
I know you probably won’t read this in time. I have been seeing a girl exclusively for 6 months and my anxious attachment has really affected us. Thursday I really messed up and we haven’t spoken since. Your page really helps me cope with this, however she said she wanted personal space. It’s been 5 days since we had contact and I feel like she’s given up on me. What do I do
2025-12-01 22:35:07
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