@girlthepoet: 5 signs you’re the phantom ex of an avoidant. If you’re in no contact with a dismissive avoidant and wondering if they regret losing you, this is for you. This video explains avoidant attachment, phantom ex psychology, why avoidants come back, and how avoidant partners silently orbit you even without social media. If you feel confused, discarded, or emotionally neglected by an avoidant partner, you are not alone. #avoidantattachment #attachmenttheorytalk #avoidantbehavior #avoidantattachmentstyle #phantomex

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sophiamaghniaa
sophiamaghniaa :
He can go ahead and grow up
2025-12-02 19:29:17
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tiahna.jayde
TIAHNA JAYDE :
I am the phantom ex
2025-12-02 08:35:22
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bjpappy16
BJpops AF :
What exactly is the benefit of being the phantom ex? She blocked me on everything and just texted that she misses me a week ago… I can’t respond after betrayal. So why is it a good thing?
2025-12-02 18:12:38
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baconlazer
Baconlazer :
I'm the Phantom Menace 💫
2025-12-02 17:46:45
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sista.krista.369
sista.krista :
Mine blocked me on ONE platform. Like.?..? Makes me feel like they are my phantom child.
2025-12-02 02:55:45
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rihanajhawk
RihanaJHawk :
By "treated you differently than others" do you mean much, much worse?
2025-12-06 04:55:30
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reviewsbybennett
reviewsbybennett :
Yup, and it still doesn’t make sense why they don’t want us back
2025-12-03 00:26:44
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laschuilenburg
Sophie Schuilenburg :
5/5! If I am the phantom ex, living my best life (even he comes back or not), doing my things & travelling, do you think he will come
2025-12-02 03:52:51
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ivy_lilith
Ivy🌿🪽💞✨️ :
I appreciate this, but Ima keep scrolling bc Idc what he thinks or feels or says or does without healthy action towards me❤
2026-01-22 09:28:02
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stephanierez
Stephanie :
But, my heart is still broken 😩😩😩
2025-12-07 15:41:19
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swiftheart3
swiftheart :
I cut off mutuals..he can't 😁
2025-12-02 03:48:52
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starrrmando
starrrmando :
hey i don’t know if you’ve seen me comment before in the past but he infact did come back a month ago and we’ve been in contact ever since 🫠
2025-12-02 03:55:44
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wiegerbb14
Wieger :
she told me she never loved me/felt true feelings for me
2025-12-05 11:57:42
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aleyazalenaz
aleale :
so what’s next? im the phantom ex, i knew it from the beginning ahhaha. it does not bring anything to me
2025-12-02 09:13:52
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young_crooner
Erny Nunez :
It’s so odd because she’s blocked me in every single platform except TikTok and here is where I post all my life updates…
2025-12-02 03:19:41
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kellyrobyn
KellyR :
He just picked up my car to have it fixed. Checks in on me. Bread crumbs me
2025-12-03 18:06:54
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harthcreations
Hannah :
I haven’t seen any signs that he is “stalking” my life.
2025-12-02 22:00:20
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johanakorea
Johana 조하나 :
dear god, hope im not an avoidant's phatom ex. IT'S NOT A COMPLIMENT, BUT A THORN
2025-12-04 05:33:44
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ogdillpikk
ᎠìӀӀքìҟҟ♋️ :
I retract my previous question on your last video🤣
2025-12-27 10:41:54
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burberryflannel
Jay ✯ :
She keeps blocking and unblocking me
2025-12-03 09:44:48
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himeno662
dogosarecute :
hi girl what if he left the door open for me when I said goodbye and I need consistency? he said he is one message away, even if he knows I won't do it. Will he try to contact again? I'm not going to message him first.
2025-12-01 23:23:03
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brendavandijk32
Brenda van Dijk :
yes thats us
2025-12-01 22:32:58
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pixiedemon696900
user1468820727532 :
It’s call d break up… not no contact so call it what it is….
2026-02-26 08:17:31
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angelaamr8
Angela Amorocho :
🤣 I am the phantom ex for two FAs wooow…
2025-12-02 02:09:16
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nina_world31
Nina’s_world31💕🌻 :
My never officially broke up with me but he did pull away every time I asked if he wanted to break up, he never would answer me. He still has his things at my house. I know right now he’s going through some stuff financially, but it’s like he’s supporting him. Doesn’t wanna let me go.
2025-12-07 23:31:28
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