@allisonsayswhat: tell me your most UNHINGED ways of healing from a narcissistic relationship. i don't want to hear “therapy” or "forgive for you, not for them". give me the cold hard truth besties. Asking for a friend. #narcissist #HealingJourney #selflovejourney #growthmindset #healingtrauma
A lot of bad decisions and deciding to work hard and go back to school. Getting control of my heart and soul again. Therapy just told me I was drink to much I said to fuck off . I had a path and led me to my family and getting married in two months to a man who adores me and my son.
2026-08-01 06:29:14
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DanielleJaide :
Realize they aren’t actually manipulative masterminds, they’re insecure and trying to bring you down to their level to prove their delusion they’re better then everyone.
2025-12-03 17:41:19
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🌸Güera🌸 :
When they say one day you will wake up and not care anymore it’s true . It will be so unexpected that it catches you off guard.
2025-12-02 19:10:00
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baylyn.1 :
GO. BACK. TILL. U. HATE. THEM.
2025-12-06 05:35:56
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L :
No contact. Ever. At all. Life’s never been better.
2025-12-02 14:44:57
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ThrivingBy :
Wrote everything he said and did to me on my wedding dress with a sharpie
2025-12-03 03:00:55
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Jennifer 💙 ❌️ G7 :
fed his texts to chatgpt which broke down the abuse cycle.
2025-12-08 21:56:37
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Angela :
I started matching energy 😌you wanna go low, I’ll take us straight to the bottom of hell. So far it’s going great. 😂
2025-12-02 15:19:17
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kat 🐆 :
Research WHY they are like this until you physically can’t anymore. Once I understood he was wired to be like that and there was nothing I could’ve done and it wasn’t my fault, it was wayyy easier to move on.
2025-12-06 14:25:32
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franonthecan :
I read a quote that said everyday I don't talk to them is the day I choose me. And that kinda stuck. Its like a reward ✨️😊 I will always choose me ❤️
2025-12-06 01:13:33
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Sherry Lynn 🤍 :
How quickly I went from loving them to hating them to not caring about their existence. Stay until you hate them really does work.
2025-12-04 05:00:06
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Halie🎀🍓🩷 :
Understanding that disrespect was the only closure you needed. That they knew what they were doing to you they just didn’t care . We get one life to live. God has a beautiful plan in store for all of us. The world keeps spinning. A healthy love does exist. 💖
2025-12-08 22:14:04
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TheMonthAfterJuneIsJUULLLLYYYY :
I sued him for $950,000
2025-12-08 20:47:49
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cassie :
They are weak. You ARE better than them and you WILL make it through what you’re feeling. It sounds selfish but all they took from you was your love for yourself. Take. It. Back.
2025-12-07 07:06:51
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𝙰𝚕𝚎𝚡𝚊 🤍 :
You literally have to convince yourself that you were not the problem. A lot of attachments to manipulative and narcissistic people start with believing we could’ve been better or done more. Once you realize there is nothing you could have done differently to change them, it finally stops bothering you. Fighting your own mind is the hardest battle of all.
2025-12-06 23:27:01
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Macy :
Grey rock them. Be as boring as possible and give no reaction whatsoever. Their delusion of who you are isn’t accurate anyway
2025-12-23 02:05:10
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Brittney :
Realized they won’t treat another person any better it’s just who they are
2025-12-13 16:31:41
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stephanie :
Cut absolutely ALL CONTACT!
2025-12-06 19:01:27
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melanierose0926 :
The things they accuse you of are the things they did.
2025-12-12 22:44:33
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SamJKnight :
Wore the wedding dress one last time at Halloween as a day of the dead bride
2026-01-18 12:23:05
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Kan :
Know the game AND PLAY IT BETTER. Secretly build an empire and just randomly pop out with it. Give them ZERO reaction. ❤❤💋💋
2025-12-03 12:58:14
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Jordashian :
Your success and lack of need for them is their demise. It’s very important you block on everything with zero explanation. God can tell them why you left, because your words and feelings will never account for anything to them— sadly.
2025-12-07 16:58:25
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Natalie ☻ :
Create a folder on here and save videos that remind you it was that bad, they were abusive, you are not crazy, you’re gonna be okay. Go back and watch as needed ❤️ALSO, a rage room.
2025-12-03 03:28:57
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Jackie :
Distance and time
2025-12-02 14:08:03
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tvylorkay7 :
Once the ATTACHMENT not love is gone and you realize all you put up with and the lies and it genuinely disgusts you. Attachment will have you thinking they were a good person & not contact
2025-12-08 20:14:53
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