Most men do this…… they just resolve it. You assume that if they don’t share it, it didn’t happen……
2025-12-03 05:14:16
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R O G E R :
it's because you held space to hear and not judge ✨
2025-12-03 18:41:04
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kinglouie :
YOU are a part of that trust. Many of us hide our emotions and thoughts about them bc past partners have seen that as a weakness and lose interest. So yes it helps to be emotionally intelligent but the most important part is how it’s received!! So kudos to you too.
2025-12-03 20:03:48
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MysteryBoxx4U :
oh you mean he isnt broken yet. yea we all was that way once.
2025-12-03 01:02:09
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user5856290588526 :
Emotional intelligence and critical thinking is NOT the same
2025-12-03 23:43:59
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Jason Ceasar :
I think the fact that he shared this says a lot about you and the safe/emotional space you provide for him…A lot of people are in unsafe relationships and sharing something like that usually doesn’t end well - congrats to you guys!
2025-12-03 23:50:53
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kieranmoruzzi :
Posts like this make me realize I live an uncommon life, cuz in my experience, I’m always the one sitting with and processing things and introspecting and basically every woman I’ve dated is utterly incapable of the same and just ignores every feeling or chance to learn about themselves and I end up understanding them better than they do?
2025-12-29 09:54:34
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Eli :
There are two pieces to healthy digestion and communication of feelings here. One piece is that HE has to be emotionally intelligent and capable, capable of communicating healthily and honesty of feelings, but it also requires that YOU are open to his honest communication without giving him any fear of emotional backlash. A healthy relationship requires both sides to lift
2025-12-03 18:57:21
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Reshi :
I've been told I'm emotionally intelligent 🤓 too
2025-12-02 18:11:04
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Jeff Yachcik335 :
He did a good job but it cant be understated how important that there is a space for him to sit with it -- not badgered for an answer and a space to share those feelings
2025-12-02 21:06:41
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erin :
Normalize healthy communication 👏
2025-12-02 17:23:26
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user8412730637060 :
I swear to you… these mamas of the younger generation are doing something right… I’m 43 and the worst dates are 40+ men
2025-12-02 02:05:23
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Gwen :
Damn episode 163!???? I need my first episode 🥲😭
2025-12-02 15:15:36
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Briggs :
This level of realization is exactly what a girl I’ve been talking too had about me too
2025-12-02 17:34:05
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Janet Fournier :
love it! forget Disney Princess’s this is the fairytale I want to see get made! 🤗💜🤭
2025-12-02 13:50:27
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the_shiraef :
My gf and I are 10 years apart and she’s older I would def consider myself an emotionally intelligent person because she wouldn’t be with me if I wasn’t. All that to say you got any advice for me as far as being in this kind of relationship?
2025-12-02 22:19:27
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logan :
Still looking for a mature older woman. Glad it’s working for you guys 🙏
2025-12-03 05:27:00
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Tara :
Chat and I have this debate everyday. She reminds me that yes, men can be emotionally intelligent and secure. I ask her almost daily. I think she’s tired of me and rolling her eyes.
2025-12-03 01:11:40
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Amirrcupidd :
And u validated him omg 😭💯
2026-01-23 10:46:53
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Carpe Mofo :
A+ girlfriend.
2026-06-16 23:49:32
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duragsxdarkroast :
Fire content
2026-01-22 12:45:46
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adamwells795 :
I have had partners that saying that out loud would’ve been catastrophic. Well done to be so open to hearing.
2025-12-27 14:50:03
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Adrian. :
The fact that you are also emotional intelligent makes it very easy for an emotionally intelligent man to thrive.
2026-01-13 23:35:19
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davidavery___ :
I think more often men are more emotionally intelligent than you think, but a lot of men grew up with unstable dads which instilled in them that it’s not okay to recognize and dwell in emotions and the understandings of them, much less sharing those with others. There’s a lot of pressure involved with being an emotionally intelligent king 😅
2025-12-04 00:30:02
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