They want a person who’s available whenever they want to be reassured, complimented, their ego stroked and for physical pleasure. Someone who doesn’t have boundaries, asks questions or has any needs. Someone who doesn’t need them and can self regulate. Someone who won’t expect communication or labels. Someone they can use and abuse whenever they choose. Basically a robot with a hole. Because they will never care for, love or respect that person. It’s all just for their own personal gain.
2025-12-03 23:16:53
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rygell.a :
Avoidants only want the person that doesn’t want them and no one else
2025-12-02 19:02:56
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Rebecca :
May another avoidant never find me!!!
2025-12-02 22:09:23
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Courtney Nicole K917 :
I wish I could find another anxious attachment to love😞 we would be unstoppable 😭😭
2025-12-02 22:33:22
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Natalee :
They want whomever they can’t have. If they get them, they don’t want them anymore.
2025-12-04 09:11:08
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Rochelle :
what exactly do they want 👀
2025-12-02 18:49:07
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Tommi :
He always said he doesn’t feel lovable, but when I was right there he didn’t want it. Makes no sense
2025-12-05 05:06:34
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Asiawaysha :
Was fully convinced this man wanted my soul cause lolllll he was confusing 😵💫
2025-12-02 20:09:48
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KJ♥️♥️ :
Me every time i see one because I’m traumatized by them:
2026-01-17 19:04:01
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Naptown218 :
dude you literally just described my girl
2025-12-19 00:42:19
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Kierre Greene :
Some people want to struggle to prove that its worth it. You dont have to do that lmao
2025-12-03 01:59:28
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jackielamarichi :
The avoidant only needs a convenient companion to give them minimal effort and doesn’t expect much back in return. They need someone boring with nothing to offer just like themselves
2025-12-03 00:39:41
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Brittany :
Mine would always say that he loved being around me bc the mask would come off and he didn’t have to perform with me like he does with everyone else. But then he’d push me away bc he “doesn’t like who I become and get vulnerable and rely on you…”🙄 like he called me on Thanksgiving begging me to come see him and be with him bc he “needed and wanted” me with him. I told him I couldn’t and I had plans and won’t drop things at a moment’s notice and I could tell he was embarrassed to be so “needy” for me. Grow up. It’s not a bad thing to love someone especially if they’ve proven to be consistent and safe. He’s done me dirty and I’ve had pure intentions the whole time. Starting to get the ick now and I’m becoming secure now yall!!!! 🥰
2025-12-03 15:53:33
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Austin Battles :
This was her exact words!!!
2025-12-02 21:51:54
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akira_p973 :
Omg facts 💯 may no narcissist or avoidant find me again glad I took my energy back
2026-01-11 02:58:16
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Anami62 :
truth! they are comfortable and will last longer with other avoidants. they are more comfortable in chaos.
2025-12-03 02:52:50
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girl that loves ocean :
with age common sense realizes the need to grow
2025-12-06 15:29:53
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$HADM444🦋🦂 :
I just knew he was my soulmate 🙃
2025-12-03 01:22:06
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𝓐౨ৎ :
mannn and i come out traumatized 🙄
2025-12-05 01:41:30
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Kylieee💋 :
wait....am I the avoidant? 👀😵😭
2025-12-03 03:19:26
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H4chiBunni3 :
Yeah cause they don’t want love just the reassurance they can be loved
2025-12-29 21:20:54
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Stephen1906 :
Exactly what my wife told me
2026-01-16 19:10:21
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theeemadisonkelli :
may i never meet another avoidant ever again PLEASE
2026-01-28 03:10:57
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Ashley ⭐ :
for real
2025-12-03 10:32:03
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