@sirlibertyje: Sometimes women don’t realize that dating a man in his thirties is a whole different game. He’s calmer, more intentional, harder to access emotionally, and even harder to keep if you don’t understand the way he thinks now. This isn’t the twenty-something boy that runs on vibes. This is a grown man with scars, lessons, responsibilities and a new kind of patience. And if you don’t get these parts of him, you’ll think he’s distant… when he’s actually just grown.