Jola Jovani
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KuzcospoiSam :
This is the black cat golden retriever theory and it is universal, not just straight couples.
2025-12-04 06:50:54
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B :
Are we “mean” or do we just not accept the bare minimum?
2025-12-03 10:59:45
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Luciana Morden :
So a woman with self worth and a man with empathy
2025-12-03 18:25:33
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Rayna :
It’s patriarchal phrasing, demeaning both people. Exactly, a strong woman and a flexible man.
2025-12-02 23:47:46
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wahabegum :
The word simp was made up to demean the men that women actually want
2025-12-03 13:07:02
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lady_of_shalott88 🍉 :
A little mean = direct/assertive when needed. That is not mean.
2025-12-03 13:06:52
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༝༚༝ 𝐿 :
"simps" are the only men that like women, imo.
2025-12-03 15:52:03
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Brain :
Being mean and not tolerating bs are different things
2025-12-03 14:43:39
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Two Red Dogs :
100% A woman who advocates for herself and a man who actually wants to be in a relationship 🙃
2025-12-03 10:39:45
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apostleofsalt :
Also women who are “a little mean” are more assertive which means they are probably communicating their wants and needs
2025-12-03 10:00:29
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tittykat72 :
Lol this is exactly my marriage
2025-12-03 09:41:40
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Dre :
I hate that when women are direct about their needs, it’s labeled as mean.
2025-12-03 19:06:38
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Naysayer Queen :
I can believe this. My husband is obsessed with me & my sister says I I’m mean to him. I don’t think I’m actually mean, I just don’t move through life as a pushover.
2025-12-03 16:17:38
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Bentae :
Am I mean or should he just not put his dirty socks on my clean clothes? Is he calm or scared of me when he puts his dirty socks on my clean clothes? We’ll never know😌
2025-12-03 19:15:28
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Carkos693 :
Obsessed=actually in love. Mean=None submissive. It's hyperbole coming from people that don't recognize a healthy relationship.
2025-12-04 21:46:00
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Miss Fluff :
*mean = very direct with needs and communication.
2025-12-03 21:24:17
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Ford Perfect :
sounds like the secret is mutual respect
2025-12-03 13:22:33
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D :
Society hates women with conviction and kind men
2025-12-03 19:35:04
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StreetLaRue🇨🇦 :
Are we mean or do we have standards?
2025-12-04 00:49:32
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JMarie :
So the black cat, golden retriever theory is correct.
2025-12-03 19:46:23
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Jes H :
Married 24 years. I think most people see me a quiet and sweet and my husband as serious and a bit gruff. (It doesn’t help that I’m quite petite and he’s a big, broad guy). In reality I’m far meaner than most give me credit for and he’s far more empathetic and often silly than people expect.
2025-12-03 04:50:42
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LakeErieLady🇨🇦 :
you just described my husband and me. I'm not mean though, I'm autistic and very blunt. The combo works, we've been married for 23 years
2025-12-03 17:05:22
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JennaForMO :
This black cat has her golden retriever. And I would burn the world down for him.
2025-12-04 06:04:07
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Lodigo99 :
Black cat and golden retriever
2025-12-04 21:56:23
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DB :
so YES my marriage, except..he will call me out if I start to get 'ridiculous'
2025-12-03 12:59:56
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