@sadgalvie: a little over 5 months later and it is still so hard to see her like this 💔 so hard to hold my own immense grieve while also attempting to hold hers, which is so vast and all-consuming. #griefjourney
Couldn’t agree more, my mums changed, grief, tears, loss but there is an emptiness that is hard to see for me
2026-01-15 18:42:25
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cristal :
the most painful part for me is seeing my mom fall in love with someone just months after my papa died (they were married for 26 years and had five kids) i still can’t understand how it seemed so easy for her to love someone new when she was the one beside my papa in the hospital, holding him as he took his last breath. now she keeps saying, “when you meet someone, you’ll forget everything about the past.” that made me question marriage and love altogether, and even made me question her love for my father. i’m so angry about her decision, and right now, i no longer want to be associated with her.
2026-01-02 23:24:05
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Lindsey :
When I lost my dad I felt myself grieving for myself and my mom
2025-12-03 18:58:37
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scarleeyx :
I lost my dad 4 months ago and I completely relate and agree. I think my heart won’t ever recover from witnessing trying to carry on without her life partner married for 51 years 🥺
2025-12-23 17:23:06
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Katie Tatum :
Me and my sisters actually talked about this after our dad passed in November and my little sister said it best. We didn’t choose who our dad was (we would always choose him if we could tho, he was the literal best), but our mom CHOSE him, every time. Through everything, they kept choosing each other. For 40 years. That’s a whole other level of love and I couldn’t imagine losing that.
2026-01-17 03:48:08
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appareadsabook :
Truly one of the most heartbreaking things to witness 😞I feel your pain
2025-12-03 15:35:03
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kenglish263 :
I lost my dad unexpectedly on Christmas Eve, they had been together for 35 years. My mom depended on my dad for everything, she doesn’t drive, know how to pay bills, or even have a steady job. It’s been so hard trying to grieve but also take care of her and make sure she’ll be okay
2026-01-14 01:00:45
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Rebekah Franklin :
I think it’s one thing that’s not spoken about ~ the overwhelming sense of responsibility you feel for the parent that’s left 😢
2025-12-30 11:47:52
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Bobbie :
It’s been 18 months and still so hard to watch my mom grieving.
2026-02-01 01:17:08
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Camila :
Only three weeks since my dad died 😭 I just can’t see my mom like this, how can I help to actually make it better. Too much to carry sometimes ):
2025-12-28 19:25:59
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Alyyshaaa :
In my grieving, I came across “if I cannot change anything in this new reality, the only thing to do is to be changed by it.” It was unexpectedly helpful. Sending my love to you both
2025-12-03 05:44:18
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angelaharman15 :
I lost my dad in November , mum and dad had been married for 72 years .
2025-12-30 19:49:34
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Erika :
My dad died a month ago. Seeing my mom grieve has been the hardest thing ever. They were together for 54 years and married almost 51 years. 😭
2025-12-30 00:14:21
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yoyooo.s :
we all are living the same life🫂🫂
2025-12-24 20:39:53
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Nona Business :
I lost my dad 8 years ago and mom last month. It is a double wammy grief right now but at least they are together again.
2026-01-15 21:03:44
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JUSTINE AMORES PARISH :
He passed today and I’m trying to hard to keep it together for her
2026-03-21 12:44:51
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ravenelizabeth3 :
3 years almost since we lost my dad at 53. They had so much life left to live together… she’s never been the same.
2026-01-21 21:35:20
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Tania Steven852 :
My best friend for 28 years I feel so last with out him hurting so much missing you my love until we meet again
2026-02-03 20:37:58
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melmanna82 :
This is so true 😭
2026-01-31 19:40:11
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Minnie :
My parents were married for 60 years, have been friends since they were little kids. It sucks watching my mom live without him.
2026-01-28 04:31:34
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Robin :
💯 Watching my Dad is the hardest thing.
2026-01-16 01:22:59
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Alana ✨ :
My parents weren't even married anymore. But he was her longest friend, she saw him last before he passed unexpectedly and she came to see his body when his wife didn't. It hurts me to see my mommy sad especially since people probably don't expect her to
2026-01-14 14:22:43
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Meg Malone :
Going through it now. She's crushed and there's no fixing it 😪
2026-01-22 04:08:31
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JustAntBee :
Omg this. Mama and daddy would have been married 55 years- she lost him 38 days before (and 7 days before Christmas). Their anniversary is 1/10 and daddy’s birthday was 1/14. This is our fist year without him that we can actually process it. Last year I think we were numb.
2026-01-15 11:07:49
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_No_Cheese_Please_ ✌🏻 :
When my dad passed I was the one who told my mom…. And I can hear her scream to this day. the most heartbreaking screams I’ve ever heard in my life m. ♥️
2026-01-15 23:38:25
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