Olivia LW | Relationship coach
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Bond Guitars :
Worst 5 years of my life. She honestly very nearly destroyed me. I’ll never, ever trust anyone again.
2025-12-16 21:07:32
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Pietro Momenti :
My guy overwhelmed me with messages that made me think he was interested in me. However, once I began pursuing him, he seemed too busy to meet up. He responds to my texts very late, and it feels like I'm communicating with a ghost. I've only seen him three times, he hides under a mobile 📱 and whenever I attempt to end things, he pulls out some dramatic story that makes me feel guilty. I've chosen to move forward because this isn't the kind of feeling I want in a relationship. My suggestion is to stay away.
2025-12-06 09:27:44
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M :
Can an avoidant shed tears infront of you
2025-12-05 22:37:10
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♡ Beckie ♡ :
even if they run to someone else
2025-12-03 18:14:54
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Siobhan ✨ our AuDHD life :
I no longer blame myself and I’ve done so much growth in this time. I created such a safe space for him to return to after “disrespecting” him but he was just heartbroken that I had demonstrated patterns of his ex partners. I’m not perfect and it’s a great shame he couldn’t work through and repair.
2026-01-07 12:22:29
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klly_underwd :
Is it okay to discuss these things to understand what triggered them?
2026-01-08 16:20:39
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Helen :
My avoidant ex broke things off in the summer after some big things happening in our relationship. He’s is aware how closed off he can be, how he withdraws when things get tough & how he relies solely on himself etc. But he doesn’t know it’s an avoidant attachment. I’m anxiously attached. Do you think it’s worth reaching out & explaining more to him about attachments & how maybe we could work things out if we were both aware of how to help the other?
2025-12-12 22:47:28
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Cheryl :
My avoidant ex phoned me tonight and I asked him if we were over for good and he said he didn't know as he can't see into the future. Why can't he just be upfront and answer me either way. He knows I'd wait for him. I don't know if that's what he wants or not. He also told me it would hurt him if I moved on but he wants me to be happy. I'm so confused 💔
2025-12-22 20:58:12
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Eefz 💁🏻♀️ :
My parents have always and still do dismiss me emotions.. I also have fears and similar attributes to an avoidant yet I'm an anxious partner. I try so hard to work on myself and be understanding as well yet it isnt always reciprocated 😪
2025-12-21 04:13:44
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Dyag :
But how do i know if shes coming back, she didnt end things she just want space
2025-12-03 12:00:36
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Helen :
wish I knew what happened 💔
2025-12-28 14:20:07
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p :
Hi, pretty sure my ex is an FA - he ended it after a series of unrelated external situations happened (referring to one as the cherry on the cake) alongside being highly stressed with work - I never expected the breakup, the reason from him was that the security hadn’t fully clicked between us (we had reconnected for 7 months after a break but together 3 years in total) - the security had never been an issue prior and I remained loyal during the break.. It seemed we’d made amazing progress in the 7 months but I noticed he did keep his guard up a bit, I wasn’t worried as he never shutdown or pulled away.. only a week before he ended it we had a heart to heart where he was very reassuring and forthcoming & our time spent together was really nice 🤷🏼♀️we’re now 7 weeks NC, I’ve blocked on everything as I have to remove his access for my own peace. Is he going to realise and want to make this work? Any advice please 😞
2025-12-05 09:11:41
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C :
They need to be locked up it’s so damaging
2025-12-17 01:04:35
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justcassandrathatsall :
How do you love an avoidant?
2025-12-24 14:13:07
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❤️⃟ 𝕂𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕪-𝕞𝕒𝕣𝕚𝕖❤️⃟ :
my avoidant always seeks attention else where from others. is there a way around that to stop him wanting to do that ? or is that something he will always do?
2025-12-28 16:37:47
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ɢ :
Avoidant??? Dear im the anxious and i broke up with the avoidant - i couldnt deal with his mess and uncertainty anymore 💁♂️💁♂️💁♂️💁♂️😘
2025-12-29 02:11:36
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