her: i have a problem
him: I have a solution
her: i dont want a solution, I want to complain while doing nothing to improve my situation
2025-12-04 15:00:29
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Joseph :
Why would you want to be angry and sad when you can just solve the issue?
2025-12-04 16:35:28
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Tannent :
to have a solution means I had to listen to the problem.
2025-12-05 21:49:00
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Connor Voight :
I always ask “is this a feelings conversation?” So I know to put down the sword and pick up some coffee instead.
2025-12-06 19:11:38
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Mike Bolt :
Lead with “I don’t want your opinion or solution just listen to me vent” or or or don’t come to him when you want to vent, go to your friends, go to him when you need it fixed 😳
2025-12-05 10:44:47
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brandonwaynephi26 :
I’ve started asking, “which of the three esses do you want: silence, sympathy, or solution?” It revolutionized my marriage
2025-12-06 11:09:15
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Oda :
💯Facts
2025-12-05 18:17:57
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chrispaul2910 :
because men deal with problems all the time. the last thing we need is for a problem to Fester. it's easier and more efficient to fix the problem, than let it build with no solution
2025-12-05 14:46:55
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user6682250831646 :
That’s what we do!
2025-12-05 16:53:50
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Nicole :
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏
2025-12-04 12:24:03
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Coastie1980 :
Fixers vs Nurturers. Just nature.
2025-12-06 18:57:17
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Don-o Golf :
Amen!!
2025-12-06 04:00:04
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Cam :
I def tried, but she didn’t see it that way and decided to argue with me instead of realizing i was holding her accountable and trying to help her figure it out. Instead she turned it around to make it seem like I was a the problem. Now we aren’t talking because I’m done
2025-12-05 22:04:19
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Derrick :
Keep in mind, we are listening to you but behind the scenes trying to fix those issues without you even knowing. You may think we’re not listening but it’s just us trying to figure a plan to correct the issue. And we would rather go unnoticed fixing them than take responsibility for fixing them.
2025-12-06 00:11:36
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Still_cant_read :
This is what you do gentlemen. Ask one question and communicate why you ask? Do you need me to help or listen? I care regardless but sometimes women just need you to be the only solid ground to stand on. (You’re her safe space)
2025-12-05 21:33:49
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Keyboard Pecker :
if we don't fix it you will nag us until it is fixed
2025-12-05 20:29:59
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RabidPegasus :
I say are you just wanting to vent or do you want my opinion
2025-12-05 23:09:10
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meatballsadventure479 :
I have changed and I ask now do you want to vent or do you want solutions.
2025-12-04 14:04:24
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T4ylerM343 :
I've been trying to put this into words
2025-12-07 16:14:04
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Riley Mulford :
Silent repost
2025-12-04 12:37:28
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ImagineDCS :
Imagine how overcomplicated this posts was explained to be. All men want is peace. Fixing the problem with secondary to getting back to peace. Everything else that was said must have come from a woman's perspective.
2025-12-05 00:50:10
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slayslay1 :
not tryimg to fix the person just the problem that troubles them.
2025-12-05 06:05:04
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keepitreal❌ :
Thanks you beautiful lady!💯❤️🙏🏾
2025-12-04 16:26:41
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erikpate0 :
if I fix the problem. then there is no problem. you get peace. simple logic.
2025-12-05 00:21:48
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Rōga :
People need to read and actually understand the 5 Love languages book before they ever attempt to even think about dating, it will stop so many problems before they can begin
2025-12-24 09:00:48
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