@instituteofchildpsych: Not everything belongs on a child’s shoulders. Kids need to feel safe, supported, and free to be kids—not responsible for adult worries. Protecting their emotional world isn’t hiding reality… it’s giving them a chance to grow without carrying burdens that were never meant for them. 🔗 ↪️ Follow, Save or Share this Video if this video speaks to you #parenting #parents #parentingtips #trauma #MentalHealth
Dear child. I love you, but my job is to prepare you for the real world not to make you think life is a fairytale. Financial struggles are real, marriage conflicts are real, life is hard, but it is worth living. Human beings are flawed creatures, we do our very best every day but every day we make mistakes. And our mistakes or what make us grow. So when you feel these feelings, just now, your mama and Papa are still learning and growing, just like you. But you won’t see that shit on TikTok.
2025-12-05 19:14:30
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Love 💗 faith :
This isn’t true! So mom please be a robot and shelter me from any problems or conflicts. That’s not real life.
2025-12-05 01:48:01
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Eli🌕 :
My mom protecting me and lying to me from the real world mess me up, kids need the truth m….
2025-12-06 04:09:41
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Nala :
I grew up and never knew how hard it was to have a full on meal! My parents never showed the dark side of life
2025-12-05 16:08:10
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MaorC :
ummmm... what about modeling healing and overcoming challenges?
2025-12-05 01:02:34
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Oda :
💯Facts!
2025-12-05 17:51:28
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Mel :
It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Please do not listen to or believe that sheltering your children will do them any good. Everyone is different
2025-12-06 11:03:21
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⭐️ Star💫 :
Kids need the truth not a bubble
2025-12-06 04:41:39
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Starfire TakeAction :
I would admit that I have done each and every one of them....so that my kids know who and what I am
2025-12-12 03:13:13
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Malaina :
still got to protect your kids from bad people regardless of whether they are family
2025-12-05 14:21:52
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Urban Media :
share only food and money with you😂😂
2025-12-14 08:46:54
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Invisibility :
I love this but your insecurities we all have them and we do need to teach our children. What we do when we are insecure and how we build confidence from that everything else 100% great.
2025-12-07 01:04:53
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Teuta1705 :
Thank you for this video on behalf of all parents who are not yet late with mistakes ❤️
2025-12-06 10:25:11
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Poncho :
Let them be kids , they have all the time in the world to learn the struggles
2025-12-05 22:51:52
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Moon Dean Hope Inspirator :
i told my kid about trauma because it exist and i told him the wisdom behind it. im one of the fighter and i protect my son by healing myself and get help from experts. i told my kid, im fighting for u so that you can have the best in life. he knows the darkness exist and there is always ways to confront, handle it and i showed him how to be brave!
2025-12-14 05:58:12
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👏👏👏👏 so true
2025-12-04 21:50:17
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zeena :
Thank you for making this beautiful message . Bless you
2026-01-11 16:42:22
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lul289 :
Valid.
2025-12-14 10:09:11
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Ot_Shailja :
I think we can share all of these things with our kids but we should not let these reasons be the cause we misbehave with our kids or let them down instead if we just let them know about all of them and show them we can live a happy meaningful life inspite all of that
2025-12-15 10:37:18
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inquire41 :
yes not good for child under 13
2025-12-19 04:57:33
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mysterious_23956 :
Perfect video to learn
2026-01-13 15:32:31
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Maria Hashmi :
can you make a video on how to share.
2026-01-12 13:39:39
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Ashmeeta Olee :
So true..
2025-12-25 18:18:08
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Abdullah :
Thanks for giving me strength! I was so self-critical while watching this video! We as parents are also new to this journey, I wish there was some proper guidance for us.
2026-01-05 16:23:03
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Kelly212 :
Oh 🥺 Goodness.
2025-12-05 15:39:38
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