@thedaddyacademy: You shouldn’t have to bring this up‼️ #datingadvice

callie ⭐️🍒🪩 :

Honestly you should feel like you’re his girlfriend before he even starts referring to you that way…the actions always speak for themselves

Kera Foltz :

This made me feel so much better, but can you please tell me when a good timeline would be to have this conversation? Because I had this conversation with him because we’ve went on like seven or eight dates and hung out for a month and he told me he wanted everything to blossom naturally and we will know when it’s time. He told me he’s not streaming me along. Is this reasonable?

Katelyn Civitello :

I have the security feeling but I also am a overthinking anxious person so 😩😭

nandi :

My talking stage uses relationship language and it's still early. He talks about things we will do and he says "You'll let me know when you're ready"

user29367096831 :

Exactly. It’s just a timing thing at this point and it’s comfortable. Not anxiety-inducing

Amber :

What if you bring it up at 4 months in and he says he already saw you as his partner and hadn’t considered the importance of having a conversation about labels?

Ariella | FT Solo RV Life :

I used to think, “if we were married and living together, I wouldn’t be upset that he doesn’t answer his phone because I’ll see him every day.” Wow, I was so wrong about that 😂😭

Nichole Alexia :

THIS!!! I’m 100000% comfy in this. I have never felt like this before. Like I already know this is good. It’s almost jarring to me. Like WHOA this is how it’s supposed to be! It’s really amazing, overwhelmingly amazing. When people say “when you know, you just know’ it’s true! I finally get it!

natalie🌻 :

The relationship I’m in now I never had to have the talk, he said I’m what he wants and he said it to me over dinner, like just blurted it out that he wanted us to be in a relationship already, then later was like so yeah that’s what I want do you want that. I never doubted for a second we were on that path

Yo :

Erinea :

I totally agree with that, the only thing is that I feel then we are just waiting for guys to choose us. So is the plan to get on as many dates until we find one that we like and that also knows we are the girlfriend?

Jessica Abramsky :

I’ve been seeing a man consistently for just over three months… we are exclusive but haven’t had the “are we in a relationship” conversation. His behavior shows me he sees it as a relationship but I’m nervous to bring it up, even though I am pretty sure he will respond positively. Any tips/advice?

Stephanie Flores :

I’m talking to this guy & he opened the door for me on the first date, but not the second, doesn’t check in to see if I got home safe etc & he doesn’t like activities so he’s never planned a date .. do I communicate that I want those things or should I find a guy that automatically do those things?

elssa :

Agreed. My current bf brought it up himself, he literally asked "So who are we?" 🥰 So different from the previous person I dated

superspinster :

Picturing like: if they can’t make up his mind in a timely manner then how can they tie their shoes helps

TaylorAlicia :

Feel this, we started casual and secret but then dated privately in our small town total for a year now. Discreetness is mainly for his teenage kids.. he’s struggling how to go full public but wants to. Idk how much longer to be patient… don’t wanna force it either

LaJibara :

Never ask a partner in a new relationship where they stand…actions tell all

1920's Flapper Girl :

I’ve been seeing this guy for 6 months and he is from a culture where dating slow is the norm but he always pairs us together and smiles and laughes at everything i say and uses a warm tone towards me but he also is my music teacher but he loves being around me 😂 my talking stage is unique because it involves a professional boundary

lushlifebabe :

I was ready.. but after 6 months he said he wasn’t

Maria Muñoz :

niko, is it okay to start dating even when you’re not fully over your situationship, BUT it’s 1000% ended?!

Brittani Nicole :

This is very solid! Hate it took me so long to learn this

Jenny Leigh :

Spitting all facts here

Sweet Greens 🥬 :

Mine asked after a month a week.

Melissa :

So we’re about to hit 2 months talking, we’ve met each other’s friends and have 1-2 dates a week but he’ll sometimes go 1-2 days without texting. He says he never texts but like 😭 do I bring it up?