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Doctor Pete MD FAAP :
And being treated like that was not okay. I hated residency.
2026-05-20 13:56:16
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secret agent coco :
Jokes on you I was severely bullied in middle school so I’ve been a high self monitoring human for 15 years lol
2025-12-05 03:59:35
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Mari | MS4 :
It’s really unfortunate because if you can “match yourself” well to the vibes, the evals are noticeably better. But then you feel disingenuous for participating in an act for 6 weeks at a time 🫠
2025-12-06 06:15:48
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B S :
Honestly and unfortunate parallel, corporate America or any parts of America where certain melanated folks are the minority. See majority of poc and to lesser extent lower socioeconomic folks experience.
2026-01-04 20:06:38
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fleurdeloss :
Girl I’m a PGY5 in a surgical sub specialty and yes this is so true
2026-01-15 12:08:54
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KB :
Oh wow I 1000% agree with this. I was always walking on eggshells when starting a new rotation as a med student and even a resident.
2025-12-05 02:45:40
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Dbehyevd :
And then some of us look around and find everyone else repulsive and vow to never be like them.
2025-12-05 19:12:49
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MGKatz036 :
This is good advice.
2025-12-05 18:20:37
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Cheeze :
it shows emotional intelligence- you need to do this with patients too
2025-12-15 06:19:28
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Folfiri :
The ideal combination would be low self-monitoring but you fit into the work culture perfectly. Sadly this is almost never the case.
2026-01-13 13:50:49
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amsteve.md :
this is sooo true
2026-04-16 23:00:37
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Tré Diemer :
Being shunned rn in my ICU 😔
2025-12-18 20:53:14
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3y3K0ns :
Who are you? Depends on your specialty.
2026-01-11 04:34:31
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Phillip Hines :
this is really insightful, you really put this quite eloquently
2025-12-10 13:58:12
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user6062192666756 :
There can be a price for being yourself and for not being yourself,
2025-12-05 23:19:31
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Sarah Waszyn :
I had to pretend like it was a video game and i just made my goal to press the correct dialogue buttons to win the game
2025-12-06 17:45:23
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HH :
i think ive legit lost my personality after being in training for 6 years. so much people pleasing and blending in. medicine has turned me into a hollow shell. but hey i can manage ards.
2025-12-05 04:53:03
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Graham Walker, MD :
Strong disagree, I want my med students and residents to have personalities! I think the key however is making sure to understand the right time and place to show it, and read the room
2025-12-05 01:37:26
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Sofia :
Im too unhinged and end up showing my personality, but I agree that I need to make peace with the consequences of being rejected. being someone else will mess with my mental health
2025-12-06 02:53:42
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Dr. Shredgnar :
It’s truly toxic
2026-01-15 02:23:26
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Dr Amy | Well-Read MD, MLIS :
I’m a neurospicy eldest daughter, my entire life has been high masking to ingratiate myself with other people. Some day I will get to maybe be in private practice and just be myself. I just hope I can maintain my true self through that. I’m definitely ranking programs higher that sent the messaging of truly welcoming and inclusive environments that celebrate differences in styles and personalities. (And reject those who are cruel).
2025-12-12 17:17:41
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