melissadivaristhompson
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Canislunaticus :
I literally can't speak. Like the words just get stuck.
2025-12-07 21:26:49
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Jen :
I stay quiet because i m super mean when im mad so i don’t want to say something that i dont mean
2025-12-06 23:11:26
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besosybrisa :
His withdrawal mechanism is our relationship biggest enemy 😔
2025-12-05 17:25:06
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Kelly Bontje :
This hits IF the person who withdraws is willing to return to discuss the situation…many withdraw and then expect the issue to just die on its own leaving the other person never feeling heard.
2025-12-06 13:08:22
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Antoinette Nichole :
ok so you just described my husband and our marriage BUT my problem is he NEVER comes back to the conversation
2025-12-06 22:53:50
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powrten :
It’s protecting my peace. And it’s also so I don’t say something that I will regret.
2025-12-06 19:59:05
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ViSONZ :
Again, this avoids accountability. In any functioning relationship, both people have to be willing to change for the sake of the relationship. Hard conversations are uncomfortable, but they’re part of growing up and being an adult. If your boss tells you you’re not doing a good job and you stay silent or refuse to engage, do you expect them to keep trying to appease you or to replace you with someone who will do the job? Relationships work the same way. If you consistently avoid communication, then you are part of the problem. I understand that this behavior often comes from trauma, and that matters but you aren’t the only person who has had to work through difficult experiences. At some point, being in a relationship means considering the person you love, not just protecting yourself.
2026-01-09 14:59:49
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SutureSelf :
I have no problem with conflict, I have a problem with unkind, hostile communication. I withdrawal on purpose because you don't get access to me if you can't be respectful and curious. Boundaries are wonderful like that 😊
2025-12-05 18:53:12
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AJ :
so, you just relabelled the clinical labelled, dismissive avoidant and anxious attachment syles?
2025-12-07 13:12:56
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sagittariussapphic :
Yes all this but ALSO withdrawing isn't the first reaction. It typically comes after several attempts to be heard without success.
2026-01-07 06:57:50
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Scott Zeck 🇨🇦 :
I feel validated.. thank you
2025-12-07 04:45:51
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Sarah :
we withdraw bc our emotions have always been gaslit
2025-12-07 17:24:11
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Bianca Botha :
10minutes😂 more like give me 2 days’
2026-02-27 18:21:51
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Z0mBiE :
I’m quiet because anytime I open my mouth I’m the problem. So I choose not to talk at all. It’s survival.
2025-12-26 23:32:37
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Sooty :
wow this makes sense now.
2025-12-05 21:35:08
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oogway :
I can say things in my mind but just can't put it to words
2026-01-16 00:41:01
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Monikaremme :
It’s been a while since I felt more understood than now
2026-02-02 02:04:50
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Tredigga65 :
Oh wow this is me….
2026-01-13 17:14:46
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Harleyman337 :
Darn you have been watching me
2025-12-07 00:56:38
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Siri_ai🤖 :
But it hurts.
2025-12-05 22:56:36
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Jade 🧚🏽♀️ :
My boyfriend hasn’t spoke to me in over 24 hours and I’m losing my mind in my own home 🥺 what do I do?
2026-01-19 21:50:39
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Gg :
You explained me perfectly, I didn’t know why I did that, I appreciate this video a lot
2025-12-07 13:41:03
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amora :
HIS FY PAGE NOT MINE!!!! (he doesn't have tiktok)
2025-12-07 09:10:08
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Annie :
That’s me all over, I’m a withdrawer and my mind goes blank and then I do the script thing too 🥺 then I just give up and can’t voice my real feelings. I appreciate you doing this TikTok
2025-12-06 21:09:35
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_yyz 🇨🇦 :
This is 💯 me
2026-01-01 22:24:47
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